Namba Sikis Stamba Rod Fogivim Narafala

“Yufala i mas givgivhan long yufala, mo taem wan long yufala i gat sam poen agens long narawan, tufala ya i mas fofogivim tufala.”—Kolosi 3:13.

?Hemia i minim wanem? Long wan gudfala mared, tufala i lanem samting from ol mastik we tufala i mekem finis. Be tufala wanwan i no stap tingting oltaem long ol mastik blong narawan, mo tufala i no yusum ol mastik ya blong daonem narawan. Tufala i no sakem ol tok we i bitim mak olsem: “Oltaem yu yu let” no “Yu yu neva lesin long mi.” Tufala tugeta i luksave se “sipos wan man i mekem i rong long yu, nao yu no tingbaot, hemia i wan gudfala fasin.”—Ol Proveb 19:11.

?From wanem samting ya i impoten? God i ‘stap fogivim ol man,’ be i no oltaem we ol man oli fofogivim olgeta. (Ol Sam 86:5) Sipos man mo woman we tufala i mared i no stretem wan rong we wan i mekem long narawan, kros i save kam antap gogo tufala i no moa save fogivim tufala. I olsem we wanwan long tufala i go long kona blong hem, mo tufala i no wantem save long filing blong narawan. Nao tufala i harem se tufala i stap fas long wan mared we i no gat lav long hem.

Jekem yu wan. Lukluk ol olfala pija blong yutufala taem yutufala i jes mared no taem yutufala i stap fren. Traehad blong wokem bakegen semfala lav ya we yu bin harem bifo we ol problem oli jenisim filing blong yu. Tingbaot ol gudfala fasin blong man no woman blong yu, we yu bin laekem taem yutufala i stap fren.

◼ ?Wanem ol fasin blong hem we yu laekem naoia?

◼ Tingbaot olsem wanem fasin blong yu blong fogivim narafala i save givhan long ol pikinini blong yu.

Mekem wan desisen. Traem tingbaot wan no tu samting we yu save mekem, blong yu no tokbaot ol mastik we oli pas finis taem yutufala i raorao smol.

I gud yu talem ol gudfala toktok long man no woman blong yu from ol fasin blong hem we yu laekem.—Ol Proveb 31:28, 29.

Tingbaot sam rod blong soemaot se yu fogivim pikinini blong yu.

I gud yu toktok long ol pikinini blong yu long saed blong fasin blong fogivim narafala, mo olsem wanem fasin ya i save mekem i gud long evriwan long famle.

[Tok blong pija long pej 8]

Taem yu fogivim narafala, i olsem we yu kanselem kaon we hem i gat long yu. Ale yu no moa save askem bakegen long hem blong pem kaon ya