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A Unique Reunion After 30 YearsAwake!—2002 | October 22
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Twenty-year-old Mark Ruge hailed from Buffalo, New York. He was a junior studying civil engineering.
At the time, their friendship might have seemed a brief, fleeting one. Neither of the youths continued with university education; each went his separate way. More than three decades passed. Then, one day in the Dominican Republic, the two men came face-to-face once more. Chance played a role in this surprising reunion. But something else was at work too. What was that? To find the answer, let us follow the separate threads of their lives.
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A Unique Reunion After 30 YearsAwake!—2002 | October 22
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Mark in the Antiwar Movement
Mark stayed at the university for a few semesters after Dennis left but then decided that he didn’t want to become part of the system that was supporting the war. So he went back to Buffalo, where he worked for a while as a foreman at a steel plant. Still dissatisfied with the war effort, he quit his job, bought a motorcycle, and traveled across the country to San Francisco, California. Although they didn’t realize it then, Dennis and Mark were in San Francisco for a while at the same time.
Like Dennis, Mark grew a beard and long hair and began using marijuana. But Mark was heavily involved in the antiwar movement, participating in protests and marches. He was wanted by the FBI for draft evasion, so for a few years he used aliases to escape detection. He pursued a hippie life-style in San Francisco. There, in 1970, two of Jehovah’s Witnesses came to his door.
Mark explains: “They must have felt that I showed some interest, so they returned. I wasn’t home, but they left a green Bible and three books.” Mark, however, was too absorbed in political activism and in having a good time to read them. Also, he was closely pursued by the FBI. So under another alias, he moved to Washington, D.C. His girlfriend, Kathi Yaniskivis, whom he had met at the university, joined him there.
Finally, in 1971, the FBI caught up with Mark. Two FBI agents escorted him on a flight from Washington, D.C., to New York and made sure that he continued on to Toronto, Canada. Evidently, the FBI didn’t consider him a threat to civil order; they just wanted him out of the country. The following year Kathi and he were married, and they moved to Gabriola Island, British Columbia, Canada. They wanted to escape from society, yet they felt there had to be more to life.
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A Unique Reunion After 30 YearsAwake!—2002 | October 22
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Meanwhile Mark and Kathi, living on Gabriola Island, decided that since they had the time, they would try investigating the Bible. They began reading the King James Version but found the archaic English somewhat difficult to understand. Then Mark remembered that he still had the Bible and books the Witnesses had given him years earlier. They read the Bible along with the books The Truth That Leads to Eternal Life and Is the Bible Really the Word of God? Mark and Kathi were deeply impressed by what they learned.
Mark explains: “I was particularly struck by the fact that the Truth book mentions a group of Christians who would not go to war under any circumstances. I felt that such ones were practicing true Christianity.” Shortly afterward, Mark and Kathi returned to Houghton, Michigan, to visit Kathi’s family—despite the risk of arrest. There, still looking like hippies, they attended a meeting of the Witnesses. They accepted a Bible study and studied during the month they were in Michigan.
After returning to Gabriola Island, they met a Witness on the street in Nanaimo, British Columbia, and explained that they wanted a Bible study. That same day a carload of Witnesses came over on the ferry to contact them, and a Bible study was started. Three months later, Mark and Kathi began in the preaching work. Three months after that, on March 10, 1974, both were baptized.
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A Unique Reunion After 30 YearsAwake!—2002 | October 22
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Mark in the Full-Time Ministry
In 1976, Mark, along with thousands of other young American men who had fled to Canada to escape the draft, was granted amnesty by the U.S. government. He and his wife, Kathi, also desired to keep their lives simple in order to devote more time to their ministry. So Mark worked part-time as a surveyor, and he and Kathi gradually paid off the bills they had accumulated before their baptism.
In 1978, when the Witnesses in Canada were planning to build a new branch complex near Toronto, Ontario, Mark and Kathi were in a position to offer their services. Since Mark had experience in surveying, they were invited to participate in the construction. They worked on the project in Georgetown until its completion in June 1981. Afterward, they moved back to British Columbia and for the next four years helped with building an Assembly Hall of Jehovah’s Witnesses there. When it was completed, they were invited back to work on the expansion of the Canada branch.
In 1986, after a few months in Georgetown, Mark and Kathi were invited to stay on as regular members of the Canada branch staff. They have served on the staff ever since and have also had extensive opportunities to share in construction work in many other countries. Thanks to Mark’s experience in surveying, he began to be used to do surveying for branch buildings and Assembly Halls of Jehovah’s Witnesses in South and Central America and the islands of the Caribbean.
Over the years, he and Kathi served in Venezuela, Nicaragua, Haiti, Guyana, Barbados, the Bahamas, Dominica, the United States (Florida), and the Dominican Republic. This special form of the full-time ministry caused the thread of Mark’s life to cross that of Dennis’ life once more.
Reunion in Dominican Republic
Unbeknownst to each other, Mark and Dennis were working on similar projects in the Dominican Republic. One day they happened upon each other at the branch facilities of Jehovah’s Witnesses in Santo Domingo. As you can imagine, they were delighted to get reacquainted. After all, they were both 33 years older and had a lot of catching up to do. With growing wonder, they shared much of what you have read above. But most remarkable to them—as well as to all with whom they have shared their experiences—were the many similarities in their lives.
Both lived hippie life-styles and moved to remote areas to get away from the materialistic modern way of life with all its anxieties. Dennis married a girl named Kathy; Mark married a girl named Kathi. Both men accepted a Bible study when attending their first meeting of Jehovah’s Witnesses. Both were baptized in March 1974. Both became members of branch families of Jehovah’s Witnesses—Dennis in the United States and Mark in Canada. Both have made efforts to keep life simple in order to pursue spiritual goals. (Matthew 6:22) Both became involved in international construction and have received assignments in numerous countries. Until their chance meeting in the Dominican Republic, neither had ever met any former friends who had accepted Bible truths.
Do Mark and Dennis attribute these remarkable coincidences to fate? Not at all. They recognize that, as the Bible says, “time and unforeseen occurrence befall [us] all”—sometimes in very interesting ways. (Ecclesiastes 9:11) However, they also recognize that something else played a role in their reunion: their mutual quests for purpose in life and their love for Jehovah God.
The history of Dennis and Mark also highlights some things that are common to all honesthearted ones who learn Bible truth. Dennis comments: “What Mark and I have experienced demonstrates that Jehovah is aware of the life situations of people, and when their heart becomes rightly disposed, he draws them to him.”—2 Chronicles 16:9; John 6:44; Acts 13:48.
Mark adds: “Our experience has also taught us to appreciate that when one adjusts to Jehovah’s standards, dedicates his life to him, and makes himself available, Jehovah can use his talents and abilities to promote true worship for the benefit of his people.”—Ephesians 4:8.
Their experience also shows that Jehovah God blesses the whole-souled service of his people. Dennis and Mark certainly feel blessed. Dennis says: “It is a privilege to serve Kingdom interests in special full-time service. It has allowed us to enjoy an interchange of encouragement while working with Christian brothers and sisters from all over the world.”
Mark adds: “Jehovah definitely blesses those who put his Kingdom first. I consider it a special blessing to be able to serve as a member of the Canada branch family and to participate in international construction.”
A unique reunion? Yes, because as Mark says: “The real reason why meeting up with each other was such a thrill is that both of us have come to know, love, and serve the unique God, Jehovah.”
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A Unique Reunion After 30 YearsAwake!—2002 | October 22
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[Picture on page 21]
Mark, 1964
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A Unique Reunion After 30 YearsAwake!—2002 | October 22
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Mark in Ontario, 1971
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Dennis and Mark, along with their wives, shortly after their chance reunion, 2001
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