Give Good Kine Words At Da Meetins Fo Da Local Hui

1. How come we ansa at da meetins?

WHY do we attend congregation meetings? Primarily, to praise Jehovah. (Ps. 26:12; 111:1) We also attend meetings so that we can encourage one another during these difficult times. (1 Thess. 5:11) When we raise our hand and give a comment, we contribute toward both of these objectives.

2. Wat chance we get fo ansa at oua meetins?

² Each week, we have opportunities to comment at our meetings. For example, on the weekends, we can participate during the congregation Watchtower Study. At our midweek meetings, we may comment during the Spiritual Gems, the Congregation Bible Study, and other discussion parts.

3. Wat might make um hard fo us, an how Fo Da Hebrew Peopo 10:24, 25 can help?

³ We all want to praise Jehovah and encourage our fellow worshippers. But when commenting, we may face challenges. We may feel anxious about commenting, or we may keenly desire to participate but are not called on as often as we would like. How can we deal with these challenges? We find a key to the answer in the apostle Paul’s letter to the Hebrews. When discussing the importance of meeting together, he said that we should focus on “encouraging one another.” (Read Hebrews 10:24, 25.) When we realize that others in the audience can be encouraged by even a simple expression of our faith, we will feel better about volunteering to comment. And if we are not called on often, we can be happy that others in the congregation will have the opportunity to comment.​—1 Pet. 3:8.

4. Wat three tings we goin talk about in dis lesson?

⁴ In this article, we will first discuss how we can encourage one another in a small congregation where the number of commenters is limited. Then, we will examine how to encourage one another in a large congregation where many raise their hand to comment. Finally, we will discuss ways that we can make the content of our comments genuinely encouraging to others.

HELP EACH ODDA IN ONE SMALL LOCAL HUI

5. How we can help out each odda if ony get litto bit peopo at da meetin?

⁵ In a small congregation or group, there are not as many commenters for the conductor to choose from. At times, he may need to wait awhile before someone volunteers to comment. The meeting may seem to drag on​—which is hardly encouraging. What can you do? Be willing to raise your hand frequently. By doing so, you may motivate others to participate more often.

6-7. Wat you can do if you stay nervous fo ansa?

⁶ What if the very thought of commenting makes you nervous? Many can relate to that feeling. Yet, in order to be of greater encouragement to your brothers and sisters, why not explore ways to reduce your anxiety about commenting? How might you do that?

⁷ You may find it helpful to review some of the suggestions published in previous issues of The Watchtower.b For example, prepare well. (Prov. 21:5) The more familiar you are with the material, the more at ease you will feel about volunteering to comment. Also, make your comments brief. (Prov. 15:23; 17:27) A short answer gives you less to worry about. A brief comment, perhaps consisting of just one or two sentences, may even be easier for your brothers and sisters to understand than a lengthy comment that develops many ideas. By making a brief comment in your own words, you will show that you have prepared well and that you have a clear understanding of the material.

8. How Jehovah feel wen we try oua bes?

⁸ What if you try some of these suggestions but still feel too anxious to comment more than once or twice? Be assured that Jehovah will appreciate your sincere efforts to do what you can. (Luke 21:1-4) Giving your best does not mean putting an unbearable strain on yourself. (Phil. 4:5) Determine what you can do, set a goal to do it, and pray for a calm heart. Initially, that goal may be to make one brief comment.

HELP EACH ODDA IN ONE BIG LOCAL HUI

9. Wat can make um hard wen you stay in one big local hui?

⁹ If your congregation has many publishers, you may have a different challenge. Perhaps so many brothers and sisters volunteer to comment that your hand is frequently overlooked. Danielle, for example, has always enjoyed commenting at meetings.c She views it as part of her worship, a way to encourage others, and a means of reinforcing Bible truths in her own mind. But when she moved to a larger congregation, she was called on less frequently​—sometimes not even once during an entire meeting. “I was frustrated,” she said. “I felt as if I had missed out on a privilege. When it happens again and again, you begin to wonder if it’s deliberate.”

10. Wat us can do fo get moa chance fo ansa?

¹⁰ Can you relate to Danielle’s feelings? If so, you might be tempted to give up and just listen to the meeting. But do not stop trying to comment. What can you do? You may find it helpful to prepare several comments for each meeting. Then if you are not chosen to comment early in the study, you will still have opportunities to comment as the meeting progresses. When preparing for the Watchtower Study, think about how each paragraph ties in to the theme of the article. If you do, you will likely have something to offer throughout the lesson. Additionally, you might prepare to comment on paragraphs that discuss deeper truths that are more difficult to explain. (1 Cor. 2:10) Why? Because there may be fewer volunteers during that part of the lesson. What if, despite applying these suggestions, you find that after several meetings you still have not had an opportunity to comment? You might approach the conductor before the meeting and tell him which question you would like to answer.

11. Wat Fo Da Philippi Peopo 2:4 help us fo do?

¹¹ Read Philippians 2:4. Under inspiration, the apostle Paul encouraged Christians to look out for the interests of others. How can we apply that counsel during meetings? By remembering that others, like us, want to participate.

12. How we can help oddas like fo ansa at da meetins? (Go look da picha.)

¹² Think about it this way. When you are having a conversation with your friends, would you talk so much that they have little opportunity to speak? Of course not! You want them to share in the conversation. Similarly, at meetings, we want to allow as many as possible to comment. In fact, one of the best ways to encourage our brothers and sisters is by giving them a chance to express their faith. (1 Cor. 10:24) Let us consider how we can do that.

13. How we can give oddas moa chance fo ansa?

¹³ For one thing, we can keep our comments brief, thus allowing time for more to participate. Elders and other experienced publishers can set the example. Even when you give a short comment, avoid talking about too many points. If you cover everything in the paragraph, there will be little left for others to say. In this paragraph, for example, two suggestions are given​—keep comments brief and avoid covering too many points. If you are called on first to comment on this paragraph, why not talk about just one of these points?

14. Wat can help us figga how many times fo raise oua hand? (Go look da picha.)

¹⁴ Use discretion when deciding how often you will volunteer to comment. If we raise our hand too often, we might make the conductor feel pressured to call on us repeatedly even though others have not yet had an opportunity. This could discourage others from raising their hand.​—Eccl. 3:7.

15. (a) How we goin ack wen da bradda no call on us fo ansa? (b) How da conductor show he tinkin about erybody? (Go look da box “If You Are Conducting.”)

¹⁵ When many publishers raise their hand during a study, we may not get to comment as often as we would like. At times, the conductor may not be able to call on us at all. That can be disappointing, but we should try not to take it personally when we are not called on.​—Eccl. 7:9.

16. How we can make oddas feel good afta dey ansa?

¹⁶ If you are unable to comment as often as you would like, why not listen carefully as others participate and then after the meeting commend them for their comment? Your brothers and sisters may find your commendation just as encouraging as the comments you would have given. (Prov. 10:21) Giving commendation is yet another way that we can encourage one another.

ODDA WAYS FO HELP EACH ODDA

17. (a) How parents can help dea kids make ready one good ansa? (b) In da video, wat da four steps fo makin ready one ansa? (Go look da extra info.)

¹⁷ How else can we encourage one another at our meetings? If you are a parent, help your young ones to prepare comments appropriate to their age. (Matt. 21:16) At times, serious matters, such as marital problems or moral issues, are considered during a study, but there will probably be a paragraph or two that a child can comment on. Also, help your children understand why they will not likely be called on every time they raise their hand. Explaining this can prevent them from being disappointed when others are chosen instead of them.​—1 Tim. 6:18.d

18. Wat you no like do wen you ansa? (Smart Guys 27:2)

¹⁸ All of us can prepare upbuilding comments that honor Jehovah and encourage our fellow Christians. (Prov. 25:11) While we may occasionally offer a brief personal experience, we should refrain from talking too much about ourselves. (Read Proverbs 27:2; 2 Cor. 10:18) Instead, we endeavor to keep the focus on Jehovah, his Word, and his people as a whole. (Rev. 4:11) Of course, if the question for a paragraph invites us to make a personal expression, it is appropriate to do so. An example of this occurs in the next paragraph of this article.

19. (a) Wat goin happen wen we show we tinkin about erybody at da meetin? (Fo Da Rome Peopo 1:11, 12) (b) Wat you like about gettin fo ansa at da meetins?

¹⁹ While there are no strict rules on how to give comments, all of us can endeavor to make our participation encouraging. This may mean commenting a little more often. Or it may mean being content with the opportunities we have to comment and being glad that others appreciate the privilege as much as we do. By focusing on the interests of others at congregation meetings, we can all enjoy “an interchange of encouragement.”​—Read Romans 1:11, 12.