Mua kulongolola midimu ya mu kalasa
MUDIMU wonso udibu batupesha mu kalasa aka udi utuambuluisha bua kukola ne kuya kumpala mu nyuma. Wewe udifila ne muoyo mujima, neudimone nkayebe kabidi ne bantu bakuabu nebamone ne: udi wenda ukola mu malu a mu nyuma. (1 Tim. 4:15) Kalasa nekakuambuluishe bua kukolesha lungenyi biakane menemene.
Udi umvua buôwa mua kupita kumpala bua kuakula anyi? Ke mudi kabidi bakuabu badiumvua nansha kunyima kua bamane kuenza ndambu wa matuku mu kalasa aka. Kadi kudi malu adi mua kukuambuluisha bua kupeta dikima dia kuakula kumpala kua bantu. Tshilejilu, paudi ku nzubu, ikala ubala ne dîyi dikole. Ikala wandamuna mu bisangilu padibu bela nkonko. Biwikala muambi wa lumu luimpe, ikala uyisha bikole. Tshikuabu tshintu: Longolola midimu yebe kumpala kua dîba; uyambulule ne dîyi dikole. Kupu muoyo ne: newakule kumpala kua bantu badi bakunange. Sambila musangu wonso kumpala kua kupita kumpala. Yehowa utu usanka bua kufila nyuma wende kudi basadidi bende badi bamulombaye.—Luka 11:13; Filip. 4:6, 7.
Kadi kukebi tshishima nansha. Bua kulua ngamba-malu ne mulongeshi muimpe, bitu bilomba matuku a bungi. (Mika 6:8) Biwikala mulongi mupiamupia, kua kuenza diakamue muyuki mubotakane to. Ikala udibidija ne bualu bumue ku bumue bua ku mibelu ya bungamba-malu idi mu mukanda eu. Wewe mudibidije ne bilejilu bidibu bafilemu, mbimpe; bualu nebikuambuluishe bua kumanya malu adi atangila ngikadilu udibu bakulombe kumpala kua wewe kupita ku tshiakuidi. Ku kakese ku kakese, neumanye mua kuenza miyuki bimpe.
Mua kulongolola dibala
Kubala kumpala kua bantu kudi kulomba makuabu malu pa kumusha kumanya kubala anu miaku ne kabidi bidi bikengela nangananga kumvua tshiena-bualu bimpe. Padibu bakupesha mudimu eu, bala diakamue malu onso ne keba bua kuumvua. Keba bua kumvua tshiambilu tshionso ne tshikoso tshionso bua upete lungenyi luatshi bimpe. Paudi kuyi mumanye mua kubala muaku, udi mua kuebeja muntu udi mumanye muakulu bimpe (anyi kuutangila mu nkonga-miaku). Umanye malu audi ubala bilenga. Bana badi mua kubambuluisha kudi baledi babu.
Mbakulombe bua kubala Bible peshi Tshibumba tshia Nsentedi anyi? Pikalaku bande ya bisanji idi ne biudi ubala abi mu muakulu wenu, udi mua kuyiteleja ne kumvua mudibu bashindumuna miaku, bashindika malu, ne babandisha ne bapuekesha dîyi. Mpindieu utete kubala pebe mushindu au.
Paudi utuadija kulongolola mudimu, wikale muanji kubala bimpe dilongesha didi ne ngikadilu wa bungamba-malu udibu bakulombe. Udi mene mua kubala kabidi dilongesha edi kunyima kua wewe mumane kubala kubalulula mudimu udibu bakupeshe ne dîyi dikole. Uditatshishe muebe muonso bua kukumbaja ngikadilu eu.
Nebikuambuluishe mu buambi. Misangu mivule mu mudimu wetu wa budimi, bitu bikengela ne: tubale. Mbimpe kubala bilenga, bualu Dîyi dia Nzambi didi ne bukole bua kushintulula bikadilu bia bantu. (Eb. 4:12) Kuakumanya mua kubala bimpe menemene anu panyima pa dienza patupu mudimu wa kumpala anyi muibidi mu kalasa to. Tangila mene tshiakafundila mupostolo Paulo mukulu ukavua muenze bidimu bivule mu Buena-Kristo: ‘Unanukile kubala kumpala kua bantu bonso.’—1 Tim. 4:13, MMV.
Tshiena-bualu ne kadre
Tshia kuenza ntshinyi biakupeshabu mudimu mu kalasa muikale ukulomba kusungula kadre kampanda?
Kudi malu manene asatu a kumanya: (1) tshiena-bualu, (2) kadre ne muntu unuenza nende mudimu, ne (3) ngikadilu wa bungamba-malu udibu bakulomba.
Keba malu a kubueja mu tshiena-bualu tshiebe. Kadi kumpala kua kuya kule, anji ela meji bimpe bua kadre anyi nsombelu unuenzela mudimu ne muntu mene uwikala ne bua kuwenza nende, bualu bintu ebi bidi bienda pamue ne tshiena-bualu ne mushindu unuikala ne bua kutshienza. Kadi nkadre kayi ka kuangata? Tshilejilu: kuyisha muntu uudi mumanye peshi uudi kuyi mumanye; udi mua kuikala muntu mukole anyi muana kuudi; meji adiye nawu bua tshiena-bualu tshiebe; malu akadiye mua kuikala mumanye pa tshiena-bualu atshi; tshiudi wipatshila ne muyuki webe. Malu aa neakuambuluishe bua kupeta kadre kakanyine bua mudimu webe eu.
Neupetele malu a tshiena-bualu tshiebe penyi? Bala malu adi mu mukanda eu mu tshiena-bualu tshia ne: “Mua kukebulula malu,” mu dibeji dia 33 too ne mu dia 38, ne ubale kabidi mikanda idibu balejamu ya kukebela malu yudi mua kuikala nayi. Neupete malu a bungi. Ubale bia bungi bua kumanya bimpe malu adiku. Paudi ubala malu aa, kupu muoyo bua kadre kaudi musungule ne muntu unuenza nende mudimu to. Keba malu adi makumbanyine mudimu webe.
Kumpala kua kufunda malu onso audi musungule, wanji kubala ngikadilu udibu bakulombe mu kalasa. Bumue bua ku malu adibu bakupeshile mudimu eu mbua kukolesha ngikadilu wa bungamba-malu au.
Wewe muenze mudimu mu dîba dikukosela, neupete mushindu wa kukoma muyuki webe bimpe, bualu nebakumanyishe pikala minite yebe mijike. (Kadi mu buambi dîba kaditu menemene ne bualu to.) Nenku paudi ulongolola mudimu webe, kupu dîba didibu bakufundile muoyo to; tshibi udienzeje bikole bua kulongesha bimpe.
Mibelu bua kadre ka kuangata. Bala mu dibeji dia 82, ne sungula kadre kadi kakanyine mudimu webe wa buambi ne kadi kapetangana ne tshiena-bualu tshiudi natshi. Nansha wewe mumane kuenzenza midimu mu kalasa, bala anu kubala malu aa, neuyishe bantu bimpe bitambe.
Pikala mutangidi wa kalasa mukupeshe kadre, kubengi to. Mu nsombelu mivule, kadre katu katangila nangananga diyisha dia bantu. Biwikala kuyi muanji kuyisha mu kadre ka buena kadiye mukulombe aku, keba bantu bakadi bayishe nanku bua bakuambuluishe. Pikalaku mushindu, dianjila kuteta kudienzela tshiena-bualu tshiebe mu kadre kafuanangana ne kawenza mu kalasa. Ke mushindu wakuambuluisha kalasa ka mudimu nanku.
Bua mudimu muenza bu muyuki
Biwikala muntu mulume, nebakulombe bua kuenza tu-miyuki mu tshisumbu. Paudi ulongolola tu-miyuki etu, malu manene a kulonda ng’a mushindu umue ne atudi baleje mu miyuki ya bantu bayikila. Dishilangana dinene didiku mbantu baudi wewe uyikila nabu ne mushindu wa kuenza muyuki.
Bua muyuki webe kuambuluishawu bantu bonso, udilongolole bimpe. Ba bungi badi mu bisangilu mbamanye malongesha a nshindamenu a mu Bible. Badi mene mua kuikala bamanye tshiena-bualu tshiebe biakane. Ukebe malu akadibu bamanye pa tshiena-bualu etshi. Ukebe mushindu uditshi mua kubambuluisha. Udiebeje ne: ‘Mmunyi mundi mua kuenza bua tshiena-bualu etshi kunsaka ne kusakatshi bantu bua kuanyisha Yehowa bikole ne kumuangata bu muntu mulelela? Ntshinyi tshidimu tshidi tshituleja tshintu tshidi Nzambi musue anyi kayi musue? Mmunyi mudi tshiena-bualu etshi mua kutuambuluisha bua kuangata mapangadika majalame nansha mudi bantu badi balonda nkuka ya mibidi yabu bikale batunyunguluke?’ (Ef. 2:3) Bua kukumbaja tshidi nkonko eyi ilomba, bidi bikengela kukebulula malu. Paudi ubala Bible, kubadi anu miaku tshianana to. Elangana nabu meji pa mvese, ne ubaleje mudiye utufikisha ku nkomenu kampanda. (Bien. 17:2, 3) Kukebi bua kuamba malu mavule mapite to. Enza bua bantu kuikalabu bavuluka anu kuvuluka muyuki webe kakuyi lutatu.
Kudilongolola kudi kumvuija kabidi, kuakaja bimpe bimpe mushindu uwenza muyuki webe. Kulenguludi bualu ebu to. Ambulula muyuki webe misangu ne misangu ne dîyi dikole. Neuye kumpala biwikala uditatshisha bua kulonga ne kutumikila mibelu ya bungamba-malu. Nansha wewe mumanye kuenza miyuki, ikala udilongolola biakane bua kumona mua kuakula ne muoyo mujima. Paudi wenza muyuki wonso wa mu kalasa, wikala uvuluka ne: Yehowa mmukupe mukana bua kumutumbisha.—Mus. 150:6.