10. (a) UJehova unike abazali amandla okwenzani? (b) Litshoni ibala elithi ‘ukulaya’ futhi kumele kwenziwe njani? (Khangela lamabala angaphansi.)

¹⁰ Labazali balamandla abawaphiwe nguNkulunkulu. IBhayibhili liyaxwayisa: “Bobaba lingabazondisi abantwabenu kodwa qhubekani libakhulisa ngokulaya langokuxwayisa okuvela kuJehova.” (Kwabase-Efesu 6:4) EBhayibhilini ibala elithi ‘ukulaya’ lingatsho “ukuqondisa, ukuqeqetsha, lokufundisa.” Abantwana kumele balaywe ngoba bakhula kuhle nxa befundiswa ukuthi kuyini okumele bakwenze lokungamelanga bakwenze. IBhayibhili lithi kufanele balaywe ngendlela elothando. (IZaga 13:24) Nxa abazali belaya abantwababo akumelanga babahlukuluze.a (IZaga 22:15; 29:15) Bayabe bewasebenzisa kubi amandla abo nxa bekhahlameza abantwana futhi bebalaya ngendlela engelamusa. Lokhu kungenza umntwana adane kakhulu. (KwabaseKholose 3:21) Kodwa nxa bangabalaya ngendlela efaneleyo abantwana bazabona ukuthi abazali babo bayabathanda lokuthi bafisa ukuthi baphumelele empilweni.