¹¹ Amadoda afanele ukuba ngababonisi ayazibamba kukho konke akwenzayo futhi aphatha kuhle abanye. Kawadlulisi amalawulo kulokho akwenzayo kodwa ayalinganisela futhi ayazibamba. Ngokwesibonelo ayalinganisela ezintweni ezinjengokudla, ukunatha, ezokuzilibazisa lokunye nje. Kawanathi adlulise ukuze kungakhulunywa kubi ngawo kumbe acine esaziwa njengezidakwa. Phela nxa ingqondo yomuntu isiphanjaniswe butshwala kubanzima ukuthi azibambe lokuthi enelise ukunakekela ibandla likaNkulunkulu.

¹³ Umbonisi kumele abe ngumuntu ozwisisayo. Kumele enelise ukusebenza kuhle lequla labadala futhi abambisane lalo. Akumelanga azibone engcono kulabanye kumbe abatshele okokwenza. Kasoze afune ukuthi abanye bahlale belalela yena ngoba ebona angani akukhulumayo kungcono kulokwabo. Kufanele akhumbule ukuthi abanye balempawu ezinhle loba iziphiwo yena angelazo. Umdala utshengisa ukuthi uyazwisisa ngokwenza izinqumo zakhe esebenzisa iMibhalo njalo uzama ngamandla wonke ukulandela isibonelo sikaJesu Khristu. (Flp. 2:2-8) Kanti njalo akumelanga abe ngolodlakela kumbe othanda ingxabano kodwa kumele ahloniphe abanye ngoba ebabona bengcono kulaye. Akufanelanga abe lenkani kumbe ahlale efuna ukuthi izinto zenziwe ngendlela yakhe. Kazondi masinyane kodwa uhlalisana labanye ngokuthula.