20 Ngombana ngiyasaba ukuthi kungenzeka nangifikako, nginifumane ningasingilokho engifisa bona nibe ngikho begodu ngingabi njengombana nifisa kodwana kunalokho, kungaba nombango, umona, ukubhoka ngobukhali, ukuhlukana, ukudlana iinthende, ukuhleba, ukuzikhukhumeza netjharagano.