Mwawona kale pa bzithunzi-thunzi bza m’broxuramu momwe Mboni za Yahova zimbabvalira pomwe ziri pa mitsonkhano yawo ya gwere? Kodi thangwe ranyi timbakhala na tceru na bzakubvala bzathu pabodzi na kabvalidwe kathu?

Kuti tiremekeze Mulungu wathu. N’cadidi kuti Mulungu ambanyang’anisisa lini kawonekedwe kathu ka kunja. (1 Samuweri 16: 7) Tsono, pomwe tatsonkhana kuti timunamate, timbafuna kucokera pansi pa mtima kulemekeza iye na anzathu womwe timbanamata nawo. Penu tingadafunika kuima pa maso pa muyeruzi m’nyumba yakuyeruzira mirandu, ifepano tingadasamala na kabvalidwe kathu kuti tiremekeze ugo bwa muyeruziyo. Bzibodzi-bodzimbo, mkhalidwe wa kabvalidwe kathu pomwe tinkuwonekera pa mitsonkhano, umbalatiza ulemu bwathu bukulu kwa ‘Muyeruzi wa dziko lense la pansi,’ Yahova Mulungu, pabodzi na mbuto yomwe timbamunamatirayo.​—Ciyambo 18:25.

Kuti tiratize mitemo yomwe imbatsogolera moyo wathu. Bibliya limbalimbisa Wakristau kuti wabvale ‘mwakubzicepswa na mwa nzeru’. (1 Timotio 2:9, 10) Kubvala ‘mwakubvicepswa’ bzimbathandauza kutcenkha bzakubvala bzomwe bzingacitise wanthu kutinyang’anisisa thangwe bzakubvalabzo mpsakuti bwerani mudzawone, mpsakunyosa, ayai mpsakungwerewera. Ndipo, kukhala na ‘nzeru’ kumbatithandiza kusankhula bzakubvala bzabwino bzomwe si bzakunyanyirira. Mitemo imweyi imbatipasa basi mpata ukulu wakusankhula mwakusiyana-siyana. Mwakusaya kulewa fala na libodziro, mawonekedwe yathu yabwino ‘yangadekese mapfunziso ya Mpulumusi wathu’ na ‘kupasa mbiri Mulungu.’ (Tito 2:10; 1 Pedru 2:12) Pakubvala bwino pakuyenda ku mitsonkhano yathu, ifepano tingacinje momwe wanthu wambawonera kunamata kwathu Yahova.

Lekani kubvumiza kuti bzakubvala bzanu bzikutaziseni kuyenda ku mitsonkhano ya ku Nyumba ya Umambo. Bzakubvala bzathu bzin’funika lini kukhala bzakuumiriratu ayai bzakuti bwerani mudzawone, koma bzikhale bzakulongosoka, bzakucena na bzakuwoneka bwino.

• Thangwe ranyi tin’funika kukhala na tceru na kabvalidwe kathu pomwe tinkunamata Mulungu?

• Kodi ni mitemo iponi yomwe imbatitsogolera pa kusankhula kabvalidwe na kawonekedwe kathu?

Penu munkupfunza Bibliya na Mboni za Yahova, ndiye kuti mumbatoma mwakonzekera bzomwe mun’dzapfunzabzo pomwe ikanati kufika nsiku yakudzapfunza. Kuti mugumane phindu likulu, mpsabwino kuti mupitirize kucita bzibodzi-bodzi pomwe mukanati kuwonekera pa mtsonkhano wa gwere. Mun’dzagumana phindu labwino mukambacita bzimwebzi ninga cizolowezi.

Sankhulani nsiku na mbuto yakupfunza. Kodi ni nthawe iponi yomwe mumbakhala muna tceru kwene-kwene? Ni nthawe ya ku macibese pomwe mukanati kuyamba nsiku yanu ya basa, ayai ni usiku pambuyo pa wana kuyenda kagona? Napo penu mungapfunze lini mwa nthawe itali, sankhulani nthawe yomwe mungaisunge kuti mumbapfunze, ndipo lekani kubvumiza kuti cinthu ciri-cense cikuphingizeni. Nyang’anani mbuto yakusaya baludya, mucicosa bzense bzomwe bzingakuceukiseni mwa kuthimisa cikasi ca mphepo, ca bzithunzi-thunzi na mtedwe wa m’manja. Kucita mpembo pomwe mukanati kuyamba kupfunza, kun’dzakuthandizani kucepesa thupo la nsikuyo, mucikhala wa tceru pa Fala la Mulungu.​—Wafiripo 4:6, 7.

Talani mabukhu yanu, ndipo konzekerani kuti mukatawire. Tomani mwawona mwapadzulu nzeru zense za nkhaniyo. Kumbukirani bza msolo wa nkhaniyo, onani momwe tumisolo twace tunkubverana na msolo ukuluyo, ndipo onesesani bzithunzi-thunzi bziri-bzense pabodzi na mibvunzo yakubwerezera yomwe imbalatiza nfundo zikulu-zikulu. Pambuyo pace, werengani ndime ibodzi na ibodzi, mucinyang’anambo mitawiro ya mibvunzo yakudindidwa. Yagumaneni na kuyawerenga mavesi yakulatidwa, ndipo kumbukirani momwe yankubveranira na nkhaniyo. (Mabasa 17:11) Mukauzindikira mtawiro wa mbvunzo uli-wense, talani m’nyansi mwace mafala yomwe yankutawira mbvunzo wa pa ndimeyo, bzomwe bzin’dzakuthandizani kukumbukira mtawiroyo pa mtsonkhano. Ndipo, pa mtsonkhano, mungalamuse boko lanu mukafuna, mucitawira na mafala yanu yakucepa.

Mukazikonzekereratu nkhani zakusiyana-siyana zomwe zin’dzafotokozedwa pa mtsonkhano wa mdzinga uli-wense, imwepo mun’dzathumizira makumbukidwe yapsa mu ‘thungwa’ lanu la cidziwiso ca m’Bibliya.​—Mateu 13:51, 52.

• Kodi ni cizolowezi ciponi comwe mun’funika kukhala naco pa nkhani yakukonzekera mitsonkhano?

• Kodi mungakonzekere tani kuti mukatawire pa mtsonkhano?

Kutomera kale-kale, Yahova ambafuna kuti banja liri-lense likoye nthawe yakukhala pabodzi kuti lirimbise uzimu bwawo na mbverano wawo m’banjamo. (Bzakutonga 6:6, 7) Limweri ndiro thangwe lomwe limbacitisa kuti mabanja yomwe ni Mboni za Yahova yasunge nthawe mdzinga uli-wense kuti yanamate pabodzi​—mwa kucezerana nkhani zauzimu zakubverana na bzomwe yambagumana nabzo pa moyo wawo. Napo penu mumbakhala mwekha, nthawe imweyo mungaiphatisire basa bwino kuna Mulungu mwakucita pfunziro la Bibliya la nkhani yakubzisankhulira mwekha.

Ni nthawe kuti tifenderere Yahova. ‘Mufenderereni Mulungu, ndipo iye an’dzakufendereranimbo.’ (Tiyago 4:8) Timbafika pa kumudziwa bwino Yahova pomwe tinkupfunza cibodzi na cibodzi bza makhalidwe yace na bzicito bzace kucokera m’matsamba ya m’Fala lace lakunembedwa, Bibliya. Njira yakusaya kunesa yakunamata ninga banja, ndiyo ya kuwerenga Bibliya pabodzi, ndipo pinango mungatewere ndondomeko ya pa mdzinga ya mu Xikola ya Utumiki bwa Mulungu. M’bodzi na m’bodzi m’banjamo angapasidwe cipande kuti awerenge, ndipo patsogolo pace mwense mungafokotoze bzomwe mwapfunza kucokera pa bzomwe mwawerengabzo.

Ni nthawe yakufendererana na anzathu wa m’banjamo. Misolo ya mabanja na azikazawo, wabereki na wana, wambalimbisa mbverano wawo pomwe wanipfunza Bibliya pabodzi ninga banja. Bzin’funika kuti nthawe imweyi imbakhale nthawe yakudekeza, ya mtendere na yakufunidwa kwene-kwene pa mdzinga uli-wense. Mwakubverana na msinkhu wa wana wawo, wabereki wangasankhule nkhani zakubverana na bzomwe wanawo wankugumana nabzo kuti wafokotozerane nawo, ndipo pinango wangaphatise basa mbali za mu A Sentinela na Despertai!, ayai nkhani za pa Webisaite yathu ya jw.org. Mungacezerane bza mabvuto yomwe wana wanu wankugumana nayo ku xikola na momwe iwo wangalimbanirane nayo. Mungapfatsembo kukonzekera nyimbo zomwe zin’dzakaimbidwa pa mitsonkhano na kusenzeka pambuyo pa kunamata kwanu ninga banja.

Nyengo imweyi yakupambulika yakunamata Yahova pabodzi pa mdzinga uli-wense, in’dzathandiza wense m’banjamo kukomedwa kupfunza Fala la Mulungu, ndipo iye an’dzasimba pakulu nyongo yanu.​—Psalymo 1:1-3.

• Thangwe ranyi timbakoya nthawe kuti tinamate ninga banja?

• Kodi wabereki wangacite tani kuti nyengo imweyi imbakhale yacikondweso kwa wense m’banjamo?