K’Abahamirizi ba Yehova Banakashâba Emilala erhi Banayiyubake?

Abahamirizi ba Yehova banakalonza oku bakayubaka emilala yabo n’ey’abalungu babo. Bwenene rhukenga Nnâmahanga bulya ye Warhondezagya omulala. (Omurhondêro 2:21-24; Abefezi 3:14, 15) Omu Bibliya, Nnâmahanga ayigirizize amakanuni gakarhabala abarholine bw’omw’igulu lyoshi balame omu cinyabuguma n’omu mwishingo.

Ebi Abahamirizi ba Yehova bajira lyo barhabala emilala ezibuhe

Rhunacihangane okukulira amahano g’Ebibliya bulya ganarhurhabale rhube balume binja, bakazi binja na babusi binja. (Emigani 31:10-31; Abefezi 5:22–6:4; 1 Timoteyo 5:8) Kugerera amakanuni gayunjwire bwenge g’Ebibliya, ciru n’emilala y’abantu barhagwerhi idîni liguma banaba n’omwishingo. (1 Petro 3:1, 2) Ololage ebi abantu barhali Bahamrizi ba Yehova badesire lugenda b’iba erhi bakabwe babire Bahamirizi ba Yehova:

• “Omu myaka yirhu Ndarhu y’obuhya, rhwakagilongozanya bwenene n’okugayisanya. Cikoki erhi Ivete aba Muhamirizi wa Yehova, arhondera aba na buzigire bunji na wakulembera. Empindulo ajijire zakuzire obuhya bwirhu kuli.”​—Clauir, w’e Brésil.

• “Erhi ibanie Chansa arhondera ayiga Ebibliya haguma n’Abahamirizi ba Yehova, ntayemeraga bulya nakagirhanya oku banakashâba emilala. Cikoki buzinda, nayishibona oku Ebibliya yarhabire ohuhya bwirhu buzibuhe.”​—Agness w’e Zambie)

Omu mukolo gwirhu gw’amahubiri, rhunayereke abalungu birhu gurhi omu kukolesa amahano gw’obwenge g’Ebibliya lyo:

• Bakacishoga bwinja aba barhôlana nabo

• Bakagendekera bwinja omu mwaka murhanzi gw’obuhya

• Bakamanya gurhi balama na b’ishazala babo

• Bakamany’ikolesa olusaranga lwabo

• Bakayaka enongwe

• Bakaciyigiriza okubabalirana

• Bakamany’iyigiriza abana babo

Kw’okushanja idîni, kunalerhe enshombo omu buhya?

Okuderha okuli, agandi mango okushanja idîni kunalerhe amazibu omu buhya. Omu mwaka gwa 1998, raporo nguma yajiragwa n’e institut de sondage Sofres eyerekine oku buhya 1 oku mahya 20 bw’omu muguma ali Muhamirizi, babuganine mazibu manji erhi aba Muhamirizi wa Yehova.

Yezu adesire oku abanakulikire enyigirizo zage bakashombirwe. (Mateyo 10:32-36) Okubiyerekire okubakagijirira Abakristu amango gw’oburhegesi bw’Abaroma, Will Durant, mwalimu w’e histoire ayandika ntya: “Obukristu buli bwashaba obuyumpa,”a ene nalyo, Bahamirizi baguma na baguma bali baderherwa obunywesi buli nk’obo. Ka rhwanashwinjaga oku omulume erhi omukazi wabire Muhamirizi wa Yehova yelesire ezo nshombo omu buhya?

Itribinali likulu ly’Ebulaya lishibirira ehaki y’omuntu yahikire aha yatwa olubanja okubiyerekire okuderha oku Abahamirizi ba Yehova banakashâba emilala. Elyo Itribinali lyaderha oku abarhali Bahamirizi omu mulala bo balerha enshombo omu milala bulya “barhalekera oli Muhamirizi wa Yehova oluhuma lw’okuharamya oku analonzize omw’idîni lyage.” Elyo Itribinali liyushwire ntya: “Ngasi milala erimo abantu barhashangîri idîni liguma, murhabula ezo nshombo, co cirhuma n’ezo nshombo zibonekana omu milala y’Abahamirizi ba Yehova nabo.”b Cikoki, ciru akaba Abahamirizi ba Yehova banakabugana amazibu gantyo, banacihangane okurhumikira er’ihano liri omu Bibliya: “Mumanye mwakagalulira omuntu obubi oku bundi. . . . Erhi kwakahashikana, mucisêze okuba n’omurhûla n’abantu boshi.”​—Abaroma 12:17, 18.

Bulya gurhi Abahamirizi ba Yehova baja omu buhya n’ababo Bahamirizi ba Yehova bonene?

Abahamirizi ba Yehova banakarhumikira irhegeko libahunyire okuja omu buhya “cikoki haguma n’omwanafunzi wa Nyakasane,” kw’okuderha oyu bagwerhe buyemere buguma naye. (1 Abakorinti 7:39) Aha nyuma n’okuba irhegeko lya Bibliya, elyo irhegeko liri ly’okuli. Kwa lwiganyo, hali omwanzi gwali omu gazeti nguma ehamagalwa omu cingereza, Journal of Marriage and Family y’omu 2010; ogo mwanzi gwalidesire ntya: “omulume n’omukazi bagwerhe idîni liguma, bijiro biguma na buyemere bugumac” banakola omu bumvikane.

Cikoki, Abahamirizi ba Yehova barhabwira abemêzi babo oku balekane na biba erhi bakabwe barhali Bahamirizi ba Yehova. Ebibliya edesire ntya: “Erhi mwene wirhu muguma ankaba agwerhe omukazi orhali mwemezi, n’oyo mukazi ayemere okubêra bo naye, arhamuhulusagya. N’erhi omukazi ankaba agwerhe omulume orhali mwemezi, n’oyo mulume ayemere okubêra bo naye, arhamulekaga.” (1 Abakorinti 7:12, 13) Abahamirizi ba Yehova banakarhumikira elyo irhegeko.