Ko e Hā e Vakai ʻa e Kau Fakamoʻoni ʻa Sihová ki he Vete Malí?
ʻOku mau muimui ofi ki he vakai ʻa e Tohi Tapú ki he nofo malí mo e vete malí. Naʻe fokotuʻutuʻu ʻe he ʻOtuá ʻa e nofo malí ke hoko ko ha haʻi tuʻuloa ia ʻi he vahaʻa ʻo ha tangata mo ha fefine. Ko e ʻuhinga pē ʻe taha mei he Tohi Tapú ke vete ai ha mali ko e fehokotaki fakasino taʻetaau.—Mātiu 19:5, 6, 9.
ʻOku tokoniʻi ʻe he Kau Fakamoʻoni ʻa Sihová ʻa e ongo meʻa mali palopalemaʻiá?
ʻIo, ʻo fakafou ʻi he ngaahi foungá ni:
ʻŪ Tohi. ʻE lava ke fakamālohiʻi ʻa e ngaahi nofo malí ʻe he ngaahi fakamatala ʻoku maʻu hokohoko ʻi aí, naʻa mo e ngaahi nofo mali ʻoku hangē ʻe ʻikai toe lava ke fakaleleiʻí. Ko e fakatātaá, sio ki he kupu ko e “Tauhi Maʻu ʻa e Tukupā ʻi Hoʻo Nofo Malí,” “How to Forgive,” mo e “Rebuild Trust in a Marriage.”
Ngaahi Fakataha. ʻOku mau lāulea ki he ngaahi faleʻi ʻaonga ʻa e Tohi Tapú ki he nofo malí ʻi he ngaahi fakataha ʻa e fakatahaʻangá, ngaahi ʻasemipilií mo e ngaahi fakataha-lahí.
Kau Mātuʻa. ʻOku tokoniʻi ʻe he kau mātuʻa ʻi he fakatahaʻangá ʻa e ongo meʻa malí ʻo fakahanga ʻena tokangá ki he folofolá hangē ko ia ko e ʻEfesō 5:22-25.
ʻOku fakangofua nai ʻe he kau mātuʻa ʻi he fakatahaʻangá ke vete ha ongo meʻa mali ʻi he Kau Fakamoʻoni ʻa Sihová?
ʻIkai. Naʻa mo e taimi ʻoku fiemaʻu ai ke nau tokoniʻi ha ongo meʻa mali ʻoku na palopalemaʻia, ʻoku ʻikai haʻanau totonu ke tala ki he ongo meʻa malí ʻa e meʻa ke na faí. (Kalētia 6:5) Kae kehe, ʻe ʻikai ke ʻatā ke toe mali kapau ʻe fili ia ke vete ʻi ha ʻuhinga ʻoku ʻikai Fakatohitapu.—1 Tīmote 3:1, 5, 12.
ʻOku fēfē vakai ʻa e Kau Fakamoʻoni ʻa Sihová ki he māvaé?
ʻOku fakalototoʻaʻi ʻe he Tohi Tapú ʻa e ongo meʻa malí ke na kei nofo fakataha pē neongo ha faingataʻa ʻe hoko. (1 Kolinitō 7:10-16) Ko e ngaahi palopalema lahi ʻe lava ke fakaleleiʻi ʻaki ʻa e lotu tōtōivi, ngāueʻaki ʻa e ngaahi tefitoʻi moʻoni Fakatohitapú pea mo fakahāhā ʻa e ʻofá.—1 Kolinitō 13:4-8; Kalētia 5:22.
Ka neongo ia, kuo fili ʻa e hoa mali Kalisitiane ʻe niʻihi ke māvae mei hono hoá ʻi ha ngaahi tuʻunga ʻoku fuʻu faingataʻa hangē ko ení:
ʻIkai loto-lelei ke tauhi ʻa e fāmilí.—1 Tīmote 5:8.
Ngaohikoviʻi fakaesino tōtuʻa.—Saame 11:5.
Fakatuʻutāmaki lahi ki he moʻui fakalaumālié. Ko e fakatātaá, ʻe fakamanamanaʻi nai ʻe ha hoa mali ha hoa mali Fakamoʻoni ʻa Sihova ʻi ha ngaahi founga ke ne maumauʻi ai ʻa e tuʻutuʻuni ʻa e ʻOtuá, pea ʻe fili ai e tokotaha ʻoku fakamanamanaʻí ke māvae ko ha founga pē ia ke “talangofua ki he ʻOtuá ko e pulé ia kae ʻikai ki he tangatá.”—Ngāue 5:29.