Mbomukonzya Kuliyumya Ikuti Mwafwidwa Ncomukonzya Kucita

Ikuti mwasola kuyandaula nzila zikonzya kumugwasya kulwana penzi lyabuumba, mulakonzya kuzijana zinji kapati, pele zimwi zilakonzya kuti inga kazigwasya kapati kwiinda zimbi. Eeci cili boobu ambweni akaambo kakuti muntu umwi aumwi uliindene mbwatondezya buumba bwakwe kweelana ambocaamba cibalo cainda. Nzila iikonzya kugwasya muntu umwi ambweni taikonzyi kumubelekela muntu umbi.

Nokuba boobo, kuli nzila zimwi izyabagwasya kapati bantu banji. Alimwi kanji-kanji balazyaamba basikupa lulayo mumakani aakulwana penzi lyabuumba, alimwi nzila eezyi zitondezya busongo bwanjiisyo zyalo zibeleka lyoonse izijanika mubbuku lyansiku, Bbaibbele.

1: AMULUTAMBULE LUGWASYO LUZWA KUBANAMUKWASYI ALIMWI ABALONGWE

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  Basyaazibwene bamwi baamba kuti eeyi nenzila iigwasya kapati yakulwana penzi lyabuumba. Nokuba boobo, zimwi ziindi inga mwayanda kuba nyolikke. Ambweni buya mulakonzya kutalika kucimwa akaambo kabaabo basola kumugwasya. Eeci taceelede kumugambya pe.

• Tamweelede kulimvwa kuti lyoonse mweelede kuba akati kabantu, pele alimwi tamweelede kubatantamukila limwi buya boonse. Nkaambo kayi kumbele ambweni inga mwaakuyandika lugwasyo kuzwa kuli mbabo. Cabubombe, amubaambile zintu nzyomuyanda aciindi eeco alimwi anzyomutayandi.

• Kweelana anzyomuyandika, amujane ciindi cakuba abamwi alimwi acakuba nyolikke.

NJIISYO: “Bobilo bali kabotu kwiinda omwe . . . Nkaambo ikuti umwi wabo wawa, ooyo umwi ulakonzya kumugwasya mweenzinyina kuti aimikile.”—Mukambausi 4:9, 10.

2: Amulye Zyakulya Zijisi Busani Alimwi Akujana Ciindi Cakunyanyaasya Mubili

• Zyakulya izijisi busani zilakonzya kumugwasya kulwana penzi lyakutyompwa iliboola akaambo kabuumba. Amusoleke kunoolya micelo iisiyene-siyene, zisyumani alimwi azyakulya zyamisyobo iindene-indene.

• Kamunywa maanzi manji alimwi azyakunywaanywa zimwi izili kabotu.

• Ikuti naa mwatalika kuba alusini naa kwaalilwa kulya, amusole kulya buyo asyoonto pele cakwiinduluka-induluka aziindi ziindene-indene. Alimwi mulakonzya kulomba badokota banu kuti bamwaambile zilyo naa nzila zikonzya kumugwasya.a

• Kweendesya alimwi akubelesya nzila zimwi zyakunyanyaasya mubili kulakonzya kucesya mizeezo iitali kabotu. Kunyanyaasya mubili kulakonzya kumugwasya kuba aciindi cakuzinzibala kuyeeya zintu mbozyacinca mubuumi naa kuleka kuyeeya penzi eelyo.

NJIISYO: “Nkaambo kunyina muntu wakasulide kale mubili wakwe mwini, pele ulausanina akuubamba kabotu.”—Baefeso 5:29.

3: AMUBE ACIINDI CINJI CAKOONA

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  Koona lyoonse kulagwasya kapati, pele kwaambisya kuli baabo ibalwana penzi lyabuumba nkaambo buumba bulakonzya kupa kuti muntu alimvwe kukatala kapati.

• Amucesye-cesye kujatikizya zyakunywa mbuli kkofi, tii alimwi abukoko nkaambo eezyi zilakonzya kumupa kwaalilwa koona.

NJIISYO: “Kulyookezya kusyoonto nkubotu kwiinda kulijaya kubeleka mulimo muyumu akutandaanya muwo.”—Mukambausi 4:6.

4: AMUZILANGE KABOTU ZINTU

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  Mutalubi kuti umwi aumwi uliindene mbwatondezya buumba mbwajisi. Aboobo, inga mwayandika kuzyiba nzila njomweelede kubelesya yalo iikonzya kumubelekela kabotu.

• Bantu banji bajana kuti kwaambila bamwi kujatikizya mbobalimvwa kwabagwasya kapati kulwana penzi lyabuumba. Pele bamwi babona kuti cilabagwasya kutaambila muntu uuli woonse kujatikizya penzi lyabo. Basyaazibwene bajisi mizeezo iindene-indene naa cilagwasya ncobeni kwaambila bamwi mbomulimvwa kutegwa mulwane penzi lyabuumba. Ikuti naa muyandika kwaambila umwi kujatikizya mbomulimvwa pele mulawayawaya kucita oobo, ambweni inga camugwasya kusaanguna kwaambila mulongwe wanu ngomusyoma kapati kujatikizya mbomulimvwa.

• Bantu bamwi bajana kuti kulila kulabagwasya kapati kulwana buumba mbobajisi, pele bamwi balacikonzya kulwana buumba bwabo nokuba kuti bakalila buyo asyoonto.

NJIISYO: “Moyo uuli woonse ulizi macise aawo.”—Tusimpi 14:10, BT.

5: AMUCEELEBE CILENGWA CAKULIBIKKA MUNTENDA

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  Basikufwidwa bamwi basola kubelesya misamu iikola naa kuciindizya kunywa bukoko kutegwa bacesye buumba mbobajisi. Kucita boobu inga kwaba kulibikka muntenda. Kukatalukwa kuli koonse muntu nkwakonzya kuba ankuko kwiinda mukubelesya nzila eeyi inga nkwakaindi buyo kasyoonto alimwi kalitanalampa kuleta buyo mapenzi. Amusole kubelesya nzila zili kabotu kutegwa mucesye penzi lyanu.

NJIISYO: “Atulisalazye kuzintu zyoonse zisofwaazya.”—2 Bakorinto 7:1.

6: AMUCIBELESYE KABOTU CIINDI CANU

• Bantu banji bajana kuti ciindi nobali mubuumba kapati, cilagwasya kucita milimo imwi iikonzya kubapa kuleka kulimvwa boobo.

• Mulakonzya kubucesya buumba bwanu kwiinda mukupanga balongwe naa kuyumya zilongwe nzyomujisi, kwiiya zintu zipya alimwi akujana ciindi cakulikondelezya.

• Mukuya kwaciindi, zintu zilalangilwa kucinca. Mulakonzya kujana kuti ciindi ncomulimvwa kuba mubuumba kapati cilaceya-ceya calo cikonzya kumugwasya kulwana buumba bwanu.

NJIISYO: “Zintu zyoonse zilijisi ciindi canzizyo, . . . ciindi cakulila aciindi cakuseka; ciindi cakoomoka aciindi cakuzyana.” —Mukambausi 3:1, 4.

7: AMUZUMANANE KUCITA ZINTU NZYOMUCITA LYOONSE

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  Ikuti kacikonzyeka, amufwambaane kutalika kucita zintu nzyomwakali kucita lyoonse.

• Ikuti mwazumanana kuba acilengwa cibotu cakoona, kubeleka alimwi akucita milimo imwi, mulalangilwa alimwi kutalika kulimvwa kuti zintu zyoonse zili buyo kabotu.

• Kubikkila maano kucita zintu zikulwaizya kulakonzya kumugwasya kucesya buumba.

NJIISYO: “Takaaboni mbwaayakwiinda mazuba aabuumi bwakwe, akaambo kakuti Leza mwini-mwini umupa kuti lyoonse kakkomana mumoyo.”—Mukambausi 5:20.

8: MUTAFWAMBAANI KUSALA ZYAKUCITA ZIPATI KAPATI

• Bantu banji ibafwambaana kusala zyakucita izipati kapati mbwaafwida buyo muyandwa wabo, mukuya kwaciindi balausa kapati akaambo kakusala ooko.

• Ikuti kacikonzyeka, amulindile kwaciindi cili mbocibede kamutanalonga, kucinca mulimo naa kusowa zintu zyamuyandwa wanu.

NJIISYO: “Makanze aabankutwe masimpe apa kuzwidilila, pele bantu boonse baingana kucita zintu ncobeni balacetaala.”—Tusimpi 21:5.

9: MUTAMULUBI MUYANDWA WANU

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  Bantu banji ibakafwidwa balimvwa kuti cilagwasya kucita zintu izikonzya kubapa kunoomuyeeya muyandwa wabo iwakafwa.

• Ambweni inga camugwasya kuyobola zifwoto zyasikufwa, cintu cimwi icimuyeezya sikufwa naa kulemba zintu zimwi izyakacitika alimwi amakani amwi ngomuyanda kunooyeeya.

• Amuyobole zintu zikonzya kumuyeezya zintu zikkomanisya mpoonya akunoozilanga ciindi nomwayanda kucita boobo.

NJIISYO: “Amwiibaluke mazuba aakaindi.”—Deuteronomo 32:7.

10: AMUKAUMWE MUWO

• Ambweni inga mwayandika kuunka kubusena bumbi kuyooswaya.

• Ikuti naa kacitakonzyeki kubweza mazuba manji aakulyookezya, ambweni inga mwayandika buyo kucita cintu cimwi cikkomanisya buzuba bomwe naa obilo, mbuli kuunka mukuvwakacca, kuswaya maanda mobayobweda zintu zyakaindi naa kukweendeenda.

• Nokuba kucita zintu ziindene azyeezyo nzyomucita lyoonse kwaciindi buyo cisyoonto kulakonzya kumugwasya kulwana penzi lyabuumba.

NJIISYO: “Atweende tukkalile kubusena bunyina bantu mulyookezye aniini.”—Marko 6:31.

11: AMUBAGWASYE BAMWI

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  Kamuyeeya kuti kufwumbwa ciindi ncomukonzya kubelesya kugwasya bamwi, andinywe inga camugwasya kulimvwa kabotu.

• Mulakonzya kucita oobo kwiinda mukugwasya baabo ibakajatikizyigwa kapati akaambo kalufwu lwamuyandwa wanu, mbuli balongwe naa banamukwasyi ibakonzya kuyandika muntu wakubagwasya.

• Kugwasyilizya bamwi alimwi akubaumbulizya kulakonzya kumupa kuba alukkomano alimwi akulimvwa kuba ampindu.

NJIISYO: “Kupa kulakkomanisya kapati kwiinda kupegwa.”—Milimo 20:35.

12: AMUZILINGULE ZINTU NZYOMUBIKKILA MAANO KAPATI

• Buumba bulakonzya kumugwasya kuzyiba zintu ziyandika kapati.

• Amucibelesye ciindi eeci kulilingula mbomupona.

• Ikuti kakuyandika, amucince zintu nzyomubikkila maano kapati.

NJIISYO: “Cilainda kubota kuunka kuŋanda yamalila kwiinda kuunka kuŋanda yapobwe, nkaambo aaya ngamamanino aabantu boonse, alimwi ooyo uucipona weelede kwaayeeyesya makani aaya mumoyo wakwe.”—Mukambausi 7:2.

Kwaamba masimpe, kunyina cintu cikonzya kubumanina limwi buumba mbomujisi. Nokuba boobo, bantu banji ibakafwidwa bayandwa babo balakonzya kwaamba kuti kubweza ntaamu zyeelede, mbuli zyeezyi izyaambwa mucibalo eeci, kwakabagwasya kapati kujana luumbulizyo. Pele eeci tacaambi kuti eezyi nenzila zilikke zikonzya kucesya buumba. Pesi ikuti mwasola kuzibelesya zimwi akati kanzila eezyi, ciyoomugwasya kucesya-cesya buumba bwanu.