Vyakuŵinya Ivyo Vikwiza Chifukwa Cha Chitima

Kostas wakati: “Ine na muwoli wane Sophiaa tikakhala mu nthengwa vyaka vyakujumpha 39 apo muwoli wane wakafwa wati walwara kwanyengo yitali. Ŵabwezi ŵane ŵakanovwira chomene, ndipo kanandi nkhaŵanga na vyakuchita kuti nichepeskeko chitima. Kweni chaka chose, nkhaŵa na chitima chikuru chomene. Chitima chikakweranga chomene ndipo chikaŵa chakusuzga kuti nijikore. Nangauli pasono pajumpha vyaka vitatu kufuma apo muwoli wane wakafwira, kweni nyengo zinyake chitima chikukwera ndipo kanandi chikwiza mwamabuchi.”

Kasi walipo munthu uyo mukamutemwanga chomene uyo wali kufwa? Para walipo, ndikuti namwe mukujipulika nga ni Kostas. Palije chinthu chakuŵinya chomene panji cha kuchitiska chitima kuluska nyifwa ya muwoli panji mfumu wako, mubali wako, mubwezi wapamtima, panji munthu uyo wamutemwanga chomene. Ŵakaswiri awo ŵakusanda vya chitima icho chikwiza chifukwa cha nyifwa, ŵakuzomerezga fundo iyi. Nkhani iyo yikalembeka mu magazini yinyake yikati: “Munthu para wafwa nkhuluza kukuru chomene mwakuti ŵanthu ŵanandi ŵakuwona kuti mbwenu kwamara ŵazamumuwonaso yayi wakutemweka wawo.” (The American Journal of Psychiatry) Pakuti munthu uyo mubali wake wafwa wakuŵa na chitima chikuru chomene, nyengo zinyake wangajifumba kuti: ‘Kasi chitima ichi chizamumara pauli? Kasi nizamuŵaso wakukondwa? Kasi ningachita wuli kuti chitima chichepeko?’

Mazgoro gha mafumbo agha ghakusangika mu magazini iyi ya Wukani! Nkhani yakulondezgapo yikulongosora ivyo vikuchitika para munthu uyo mukumutemwa wafwa. Nkhani zakulondezgapo zikulongosora ivyo mungachita kuti muchepeskeko chitima.

Tikugomezga kuti ivyo vili mu nkhani zakulondezgapo vipembuzgenge na kovwira waliyose uyo wali na chitima chifukwa chakuti mubali wake wali kufwa.