Namba Fo Stamba Rod Respek
“Yufala i no mas sakem tok blong yufala i go antap, mo yufala i no mas tok nogud long yufala.”—Efesas 4:31.
?Hemia i minim wanem? Olgeta famle evriwan oli raorao samtaem, ol gudfala famle mo ol famle we oli gat trabol tu. Be ol gudfala famle oli tokbaot trabol ya long gudfala fasin. Wan i no jikim narawan, sakem tok we i spolem filing blong narawan, mo yusum ol narafala rabis tok. Olgeta wanwan long famle oli mekem i gud long ol narawan, olsem we oli wantem se narawan i mekem long olgeta.—Matiu 7:12.
?From wanem samting ya i impoten? Ol tok blong yumi oli save spolem narafala olsem wan tul blong faet. Wan proveb long Baebol i talem se: “I moa gud man i go stap hem wan long draeples, i winim we hem i stap wetem wan woman we tang blong hem i sap mo we i stap kros oltaem.” (Ol Proveb 21:19, The Bible in Basic English) Hemia i sem mak tu long wan man we tang blong hem i sap. Long saed blong wok blong tijim pikinini, Baebol i talem se: “Bambae yufala i no stap mekem ol samting we i save mekem ol pikinini blong yufala oli kros, from we sipos yufala i stap mekem olsem, bambae tingting blong olgeta i foldaon.” (Kolosi 3:21) Sipos papa mama i agensem pikinini oltaem, pikinini i save harem se hem i no naf blong mekem tufala i glad. Ale maet hem i no moa traehad nating.
Jekem yu wan. Traem ansa long ol kwestin ya blong faenemaot sipos i gat respek insaed long famle blong yufala.
◼ Taem famle i raorao smol, ?oltaem i gat wan i kam kros nao i ronwe i go afsaed?
◼ Taem mi toktok long man blong mi, woman blong mi, no pikinini blong mi, ?mi yusum tok ya “stupid,” “sathed,” mo ol narafala tok olsem?
◼ ?Mi mi gruap wetem ol man we oli sakem ol rabis tok oltaem?
Mekem wan desisen. Tingbaot wan no tu samting we yu save mekem blong toktok wetem respek. (Wan samting, hemia: Mekem desisen blong yusum tok ya “mi,” i bitim we yu yusum “yu” oltaem. Olsem nao, yu save talem se, “Mi mi harem nogud taem yu . . . ,” be yu no talem se, “Oltaem yu yu . . . ”)
I gud yu talemaot long man no woman blong yu samting we bambae yu traem wok long hem. Afta we tri manis i pas, askem long hem sipos hem i luk se yu kamgud moa.
Tingbaot sam toktok we yu no mas yusum, blong yu save tok long gudfala fasin long ol pikinini blong yu.
I gud yu talem sore long pikinini blong yu from olgeta taem we yu bin tok strong tumas long hem mo yu no soemaot respek long hem
[Tok blong pija long pej 6]
Sloslo ol wef blong solwota oli save kakae ol strong ston gogo oli brok. Long sem fasin, sipos olgeta long famle oli saksakem ol tok we i spolem olgeta, sloslo famle bambae i no moa joengud