“Ngilapha Ngoba . . . ”

Nxa abaninimuzi bevula iminyango yabo njalo besibona, bayamangala ukuthi kanti singobani futhi sifunani. Kuyini esingakutsho nxa sizethula kubo ukuze sibenze bahlaliseke? Ngemva kokubingelela umninimuzi abanye abamemezeli bangathi “ngilapha ngoba” ukuze bachaze okunengi. Ngokwesibonelo, bangathi: “Sikuvakatshele ngoba omakhelwana abanengi bakhathazekile ngobugebengu. Ucabanga ukuthi . . . ” kumbe “Ngilapha ngoba ngifunda labantu iBhayibhili mahala.” Nxa umninimuzi angatshelwa ekuqaliseni ukuthi kungani umvakatshele, angafuna ukukulalela lokho ozakutsho.