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1, 2. Abarikuza aheeru ku barikugaruka omu maka gaabo nibashangayo mbeera ki ezigumire? (Reeba ekishushani aha kutandika.)

“OBU naabaire ninkorera omu ihanga erindi, nkaba nyine omurimo murungi kandi nkaba nintunga esente nyingi,” nikwo Eduardo arikugira.a “Kwonka ku naatandikire kwega Baibuli n’Abajurizi ba Yehova, nkareeba ngu obujunaanizibwa bwangye obukuru ti kureeberera eka yangye mu by’omubiri, kureka omu by’omwoyo. N’ahabw’ekyo, nkagaruka omuka.”​—Efe. 6:4.

² Eduardo akaba naakimanya ngu okugarukayo kutuura n’eka ye, nikishemeza Yehova. Nka Marilyn, ogambirweho omu kicweka ekihweire, Eduardo nawe akaba aine kugaruka kuteeraho kugira omukago murungi n’eka ye. Akaba aine kureeberera omukazi n’abaana be, kandi akaba aine kukora kubaasa kutunga esente z’okubareeberera. Ekyo akaba naija kukikora ata? Abandi omu kibiina bakamuhwera bata?

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3. Abaana nibakwatwaho bata abazaire baabo baabatsigaho?

³ “Nkeetegyereza ngu nkaba ntarikubaasa kuha bahara bangye bashatu obuhabuzi n’okubooreka rukundo,” nikwo Eduardo arikugira. “Nkaba ntarikubaasa kushoma nabo ebitebyo by’omu Baibuli, kushaba nabo, kubagwa omu kifuba, n’okuzaana nabo.” (Bir. 6:7) Muhara we omukuru, Anna, naagira ati: “Ahabw’okugira ngu tata akaba atari muka nkehurira nk’otarikukundwa. Tukaba nitumanya eiraka rye n’oku arikushusha aha maisho kwonka. Ku yaagarukire akangwa omu kifuba, tikiraambereire kya butoosha.”

4. Ahabw’enki nikibaasa kugumira omutwe gw’eka kuhikiiriza obujunaanizibwa bwe yaaba atari n’ab’omu ka ye?

⁴ Ishe abaana yaaba atari muka tarikubaasa kuhikiiriza obujunaanizibwa bwe nk’omutwe gw’eka. Muka Eduardo, orikwetwa Ruby, naagira ati: “Nkaba nyine kukora emirimo ebiri, ogw’okuba Maama na Taata , nkaba nyine kucwamu aha nshonga zoona omu ka. Eduardo ku yaagarukire omu ka, nkaba nyine kwega eki okworoba okw’Ekikristaayo kirikumanyisa. Na hati, obumwe nimba nyine kweijutsya ngu ibanyi ariho.” (Efe. 5:22, 23) Eduardo naayongyera agira ati: “Bahara baitu bakaba bamanyiriire kuza owa nyinabo kumushaba orusa baaba baine eki barikwenda kukora. Nk’abazaire, tukakyetegyereza ngu twine kworeka abaana baitu ngu nitucwamu hamwe nk’eka kandi naanye nkaba nyine kwebembera eka omu muringo gw’Ekikristaayo.”

5. Ishe abaana omwe akagaruraho ata omukago gwe na Yehova hamwe n’eka ye, kandi hakarugamu ki?

⁵ Eduardo akaba amaririire kukora kyona eki arikubaasa kugaruraho omukago gwe n’ab’omu ka ye, n’okubombeka omu by’omwoyo. “Ekigyendererwa kyangye kikaba kiri eky’okwegyesa abaana bangye amazima omu bigambo n’eky’okureeberaho kyangye, ntarikubagira ngu ninkunda Yehova kwonka, beitu ndikukyoreka.” (1 Yoh. 3:18) Mbwenu shi Yehova akaha Eduardo omugisha ahabw’okworeka okwikiriza? “Okureeba tata arikuteeraho kugira omukago murungi naitwe kikatukwataho munonga,” nikwo Anna yaagizire. “Ku twabaire tumureeba naatunguuka omu kibiina, kikaba kitwesiimisa. Ensi ekaba neetugyemesereza kuruga ahari Yehova. Kwonka tukareeba abazaire baitu bataire omutima aha mazima naitwe twateeraho kubatooreza. Tata akaraganisa kutagaruka kututsigaho, kandi buzima taratutsigireho. Ku ogire ngu akatutsigaho, obundi nkabaire ntari mu kibiina kya Yehova hati.”

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6. Abazaire abamwe bakeega ki omu bwire bw’orutaro?

⁶ Obu haabaho orutaro omu Balkans, abaana b’Abajurizi ba Yehova bakaba bashemereirwe n’obu embeera zaabaire zigumire. Ahabw’enki? Abazaire bakaba batarikubaasa kuza kukora, bakaba baguma omuka, beega n’abaana baabo, bazaana nabo, kandi bagaaniira nabo. Eki nikitwegyesa ki? Abaana nibeetenga kuba bari n’abazaire baabo kukira okubaha ebiconco nari sente. Buzima nk’oku Ekigambo kya Ruhanga kirikugira, abaana nibagasirwa, abazaire baabo baaba nibabafaho kandi bakabatendeka.​—Enf. 22:6.

7, 8. (a) Abazaire abarikugaruka kuruga aheeru nibakira kukora nshobe ki? (b) Abazaire nibabaasa kukora ki kugaruraho omukago gwabo n’abaana baabo?

⁷ Eky’obusaasi, abazaire abamwe ku barikugaruka omuka, abaana baabo bakabagambira kubi, nibabagarukamu n’ekiniga bati: “Noobaasa ota kuba entasiima ahabw’ebi nyefeerereize byona ahabwawe?” Kwonka abaana nibabaasa kugira emiteekateekyere egwire ahabw’okutsigwaho abazaire baabo. Mbwenu shi abazaire nibabaasa kuhwera bata abaana baabo?

⁸ Shaba Yehova kukuhwera kwongyera kwetegyereza oku ab’omu ka yaawe barikwehurira. Kandi orikugamba nabo, ikiriza ngu niiwe omwe aha baareetsire oburemeezi oburi omuka. Noobaasa kubashaba okusaasirwa. Ou ori nawe omu bushwere n’abaana baawe baakureeba ngu nooteeraho kushoboorora ebyashobire, nibaija kukireeba ngu nikiruga omu mutima. Waayoreka okumariirira kandi okagumisiriza, ab’omu ka yaawe nibaija kugaruka bakukunde kandi bakuhe ekitiinisa.

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9. Ahabw’enki okureeberera ‘ab’omu ka yaawe’ kitarikumanyisa kuteeraho kusherura ebintu bingi?

⁹ Entumwa Paulo akagira ngu Abakristaayo abakaikwire baaba batarikubaasa kwereeberera, abaana na baijukuru baabo baine kwihura “ebi abazaire baabo baabakoreire.” Kwonka Paulo akagumizamu yaahiga Abakristaayo boona ngu beegye kumarwa n’ebikuru ebirikwetengyesa nk’eby’okurya, eby’okujwara n’oburaaro. Titushemereire kuba nitusherura ebintu bingi turikuteekateeka ngu nibiija kutuhwera omu bwire bw’omumaisho. (Shoma 1 Timoseo 5:4, 8; 6:6-10.) Omukristaayo kubaasa kureeberera “ab’omu ka ye,” tikirikumanyisa okusherura eby’obutungi omu nsi egi eri haihi kuhwaho. (1 Yoh. 2:15-17) Titushemereire kwikiriza “amaganya g’ensi, n’okubeihwabeihwa kw’obutungi bwayo,” kuremesa ab’omu maka gaitu “kutunga amagara aga buzima” omu nsi ensya.​—Mak. 4:19; Luk. 21:34-36; 1 Tim. 6:19.

10. Ahabw’enki n’eky’obwengye kwetantara amabanja?

¹⁰ Yehova naakimanya ngu nitwetenga esente eziringaniire. Kwonka esente tizirikubaasa kuturinda n’okutuhwera nk’oku okumanya n’obwengye birikuturinda. (Mub. 7:12; Luk. 12:15) Abarikuza aheeru tibarikukira kuteekateeka aha sente ezirikwetengyesa kuza aheeru, kandi obwo nibaba batarikuhamya yaaba nibaija kutunga sente baaheza kuhikayo. Nangwa n’okukora ekyo nikibaasa kuba eky’akabi. Baingi abarikuza aheeru nibagaruka baine amabanja maingi. Omu mwanya gw’okugira obwire burikumara obw’okuheereza Ruhanga, nibahinduka abahuuku b’abarikubabanja. (Shoma Enfumu 22:7.) Eky’obwengye eki twine kukora n’okwetantara amabanja.

11. Okugira embaririra nikibaasa kuhwera kita eka?

¹¹ Eduardo akakimanya ngu ekiramuhwere kumariirira kuguma n’eka ye, n’okuteeraho kukoresa gye sente. We n’omukazi we bakakora embaririra y’okugura ebi barikwetenga byonka. Embaririra ei baakozire ekaba etarikubabaasisa kugura buri kimwe nk’oku baabaire bamanyiriire kukora. Kwonka boona bakakwatanisa kandi bakaba batarikugura ebitari bikuru.b “Nk’eky’okureeberaho,” Eduardo naagira ati: “Abaana bangye nkabaiha omu mashomero ag’abantu buntu naabatwara omu mashomero ga gavumenti.” We n’eka ye bakaguma nibashaba ngu atunge omurimo ogwabaire nigwija kumubaasisa kugumizamu n’entebeekanisa yaabo ey’eby’omwoyo. Yehova akagarukamu ata okushaba kwabo?

12, 13. Nyineeka omwe akakora ki kubaasa kureeberera eka ye, kandi Yehova akamuha ata omugisha ahabw’okumariirira kwe kuguma aine eriisho eririkureeba hamwe?

¹² “Emyaka ebiri eyabaandize, esente zikaba zitarikutumara gye,” nikwo Eduardo arikugira. “Esente ezi naabaire nintunga zikaba zitarikubaasa kumara kugura byona ebyabaire nibyetengyesa. Kwonka tukaba nitubaasa kuza omu nteerane zoona n’omu kubuurira.” Eduardo akacwamu kwanga emirimo yoona eyaabaire neija kumureetera kuba atari n’eka ye, kumara ameezi nari emyaka. “Omu mwanya gw’ekyo,” naagira ati: “Nkega kukora emirimo etari emwe n’emwe kugira ngu gumwe gwaba gutariho, mbaase kukora ogundi.”

¹³ Ahabw’okugira ngu Eduardo akaba aine kushashura amabanja ge mporampora kumara obwire, esente ezi yaayegurize akaba aine kutamu amagoba. Kwonka eki tarakireebire nka kikuru, ahabw’okugira ngu akaba naayenda kuba hamwe n’eka ye omu buri kimwe, nk’oku Yehova arikwenda ngu abazaire bakore. Eduardo naagira ati: “Esente ezi ndikukora hati zikatuubaho ebicweka 10 ahari igana aha zi naabaire ninkora aheeru,” kwonka “titurikubura ky’okurya. Omukono gwa Yehova ti mugufu. Kandi tukacwamu kuba baapayoniya. Bwanyima y’ekyo, entaasya ekabamu haakiri, kandi eki kikampwera kureeberera eka yangye ntagumiirwe.”​—Isa. 59:1.

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14, 15. Amaka nigabaasa kwemera gata okugyemeserezibwa kwebembeza eby’obutungi omu mwanya gw’eby’omwoyo, kandi nihabaasa kurugamu ki gaataho eky’okureeberaho kirungi?

¹⁴ Omu myanya mingi, abantu nibateekateeka ngu baine obujunaanizibwa bw’okuha abanyabuzaare n’abanywani esente n’ebiconco. “Ogu n’omucwe gwaitu kandi nitukunda kugaba,” nikwo Eduardo arikushoboorora, kwonka naayongyeraho ati: “Ekyo kiine kugira obugarukiro. Omu muringo gw’obwengye ninshoboororera abanyabuzaare bangye ngu ninyija kubahwera nk’oku ndikubaasa kwonka tiinyine kunagiirira eka yangye omu by’omwoyo.”

¹⁵ Abo abarikugaruka kuruga aheeru n’abo abarikwanga kuza aheeru ahabw’okutenda kutsigaho amaka gaabo, nibakira kujumwa n’okushekyererwa abanyabuzaare baabo abarikubareeba nk’abaine obujunaanizibwa bw’okubareeberera. Abamwe nibagira ngu nibaba batarikubakunda. (Enf. 19:6, 7) Kwonka nabwo, Anna muhara wa Eduardo naagira ati: “Ku turikuguma nitwebembeza eby’omwoyo omu mwanya gw’eby’obutungi, abanyabuzaare abamwe nibabaasa kukireeba ngu okuba Omukristaayo nitukitwara nka kikuru. Ekyo tibaakubaasize kukimanya ku ogire ngu nitwikiriza kukora ebi barikwenda.”​—Gyeragyeranisa na 1 Petero 3:1, 2.

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16. (a) Omuntu naabaasa kwebeiha ata arikugira emiteekateekyere egwire? (Yak. 1:22) (b) Ni kucwamu kwa muringo ki oku Yehova arikuha omugisha?

¹⁶ Bwanyima y’okuhika omu ihanga erindi atari na iba n’abaana be, munyaanyazi-itwe omwe akagambira abareeberezi ati: “Tukaba twine kugira ebi twayefeerereza kumbaasisa kwija aha. Ibanyi akabanza yaarekyera aho kuheereza nk’omureeberezi. N’ahabw’ekyo ninteekateeka ngu Yehova naija kutuha omugisha.” Abo abarikwesiga Yehova baaba baine eky’okucwamu naabaha omugisha. Kwonka shi naabaasa kuha omugisha abo abarikucwamu ebirikutaana n’ebi arikukunda na munonga byaba nibitwariramu obuheereza oburikwera?​—Shoma Abaheburaayo 11:6; 1 Yohaana 5:13-15.

17. Ahabw’enki twine kushaba Yehova obuhabuzi tutakacwiremu, kandi nitubaasa kukikora tuta?

¹⁷ Sherura obuhabuzi bwa Yehova otakacwiremu nari otakaikiriize kugira eki waakora, beitu kutari kubanza waacwamu. Mushabe kukuha omwoyo gwe gurikwera, obwengye, n’obuhabuzi. (2 Tim. 1:7) Yebuuze oti: ‘Mbwenu shi nyetebeekaniise kwefeerereza ekintu kyona kugira ngu mbaase kuheereza Yehova? Nimbaasa kukora ekyo, n’obu naakuba nimpiiganisibwa?’ Kyaba nikwo kiri, oyetebeekaniise n’okumworobera n’obu kyakuba nikyetengyesa okukora emirimo ey’ahansi? (Luk. 14:33) Shaba abareeberezi bakuhe obuhabuzi kuruga omu Byahandiikirwe, kandi oyorekye ngu nooyesiga Yehova kukuhwera orikugyendera aha buhabuzi bwe. Abareeberezi tibarikubaasa kukucweramu, kwonka nibabaasa kukuhwera kucwamu ebiraakureetere kushemererwa.​—2 Kor. 1:24.

18. N’oha oine obujunaanizibwa bw’okureeberera eka, kandi abandi nibabaasa kuhwera bata?

¹⁸ Yehova naayenda ngu emitwe y’eka bareeberere amaka gaabo. Tushemereire kusiima kandi tukashabira abo abarikuhikiiriza obujunaanizibwa obwo batarikutsigaho abu bari nabo omu bushwere nari abaana baabo, n’obu baraabe nibagyemeserezibwa kukikora. Haabaho ebihikiirizi nari omuntu orikwetenga obujanjabi ahonaaho, omu mbeera nk’ezo nituba twine omugisha gw’okworekana rukundo. (Gal. 6:2, 5; 1 Pet. 3:8) Mbwenu shi noobaasa kugira esente ezi waahayo kuhwera, nari noobaasa kugira ow’eishe-emwe ou waahwera kutunga omurimo omu kicweka kyanyu? Kyaba kityo, nikiija kumuhwera kutuubya aha kugyemeserezibwa oku arikubaasa kuba aine ngu atsigyeho eka ye aze kusherura omurimo ahandi.​—Enf. 3:27, 28; 1 Yoh. 3:17.

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19, 20. Ahabw’enki Abakristaayo nibabaasa kugira obuhame ngu Yehova naija kubahwera?

¹⁹ Ekyahandiikirwe nikituhiga kiti: “Mutarigira omutima ogurikukunda empiiha, ebi mwine bibe nibyo byabamara; ahakuba We akagira ati: Tindikutsigaho, kandi tindikuhemukaho na kakye. Nikyo turikugambira, tutarikubanganisa, tuti: Mukama niwe muhwezi wangye, tinditiina; omuntu naabaasa kungira ata?” (Heb. 13:5, 6) Mbwenu shi obuhabuzi obu noobaasa kubugyenderaho ota?

²⁰ “Abantu nibakira kugira ngu Abajurizi ba Yehova n’abantu abaine okushemererwa,” nikwo omureeberezi omwe kuruga omu ihanga erikirikutunguuka arikugira. “Kandi nibareeba ngu n’Abajurizi ba Yehova abooro, nibaba bajwaire gye kandi barikureebeka gye kukira abandi bantu.” Eki nikihikaana n’eki Yesu yaaraganiise abo abarikwebembeza eby’Obukama. (Mat. 6:28-30, 33) Buzima Yehova Tataitwe ow’omu iguru naakukunda kandi naakwendeza ebirungi hamwe n’abaana baawe. “Ahabw’okuba amaisho ga MUKAMA gairuka oku n’oku nigabuga ensi yoona, okweyoreka ku ari ow’amaani kuhwera abaine emitima eshugaine ahariwe.” (2 Bus.16:9) Atuhaire ebiragiro bye, otwariiremu ebirikukwata aha maka n’ebintu ebirikwetengyesa ahabw’oburungi bwaitu. Twabikuratira, nitworeka ngu nitumukunda kandi ngu nitumwesiga. “Oku nikwo kukunda Ruhanga, itwe okworobera ebiragiro bye; kandi ebiragiro bye tibirusya.”​—1 Yoh. 5:3.

21, 22. Ahabw’enki omaririire kwesiga Yehova?

²¹ Eduardo naagira ati: “Ninkimanya ngu obwire obu naamazire ndi hare n’omukazi wangye n’abaana bangye tindibugaruraho,” kwonka “tindikuguma ninyefuuza. Baingi ahari banywani bangye n’abagaiga kwonka tibashemereirwe. Amaka gaabo garimu oburemeezi bw’amaani. Kwonka eka yaitu eshemereirwe munonga. Kandi ninshemererwa munonga kureeba ab’eishe-emwe omu ihanga eri n’obu baraabe bari abooro, barikwebembeza eby’omwoyo. Twena nitureeba okuhikiirira kw’ebi Yesu yaaraganiise.”​—Shoma Matayo 6:33.

²² Gira obumanzi. Cwamu kworobera Yehova kandi omwesigye. Yeyongyere kukunda Ruhanga, ou ori nawe omu bushwere, n’abaana baawe kikubaasise kuhikiiriza obujunaanizibwa bwawe obw’eby’omwoyo. N’ekiraarugyemu, noija kureeba ngu Yehova n’omuhwezi waawe.