Tihariho Orikubaasa Kuheereza Abakama Babiri

1-3. (a) Ni buremeezi ki obw’eby’entaasya obu baingi barikutunga, kandi abamwe nibateeraho kubumaraho bata? (Reeba ekishushani aha kutandika.) (b) Abarikwenda kuza aheeru, nibeerarikirira ki aha bikwatiraine n’okworora abaana?

“IBANYI James, akaba agaruka omuka buri izooba aruhire munonga, kandi esente ezi yaabaire naatunga zikaba ziri nkye kubaasa kushashurira ebi turikwetenga buri izooba,” Marilyn nikwo arikugira.a “Nkaba niinyenda kumuhwera kugira ebi naagura kandi ngire ebintu bimwe ebi naagurira Jimmy mutabani waitu, ebi bataahi be aha ishomero baabaire baine.” Marilyn akaba naayenda n’okuhwera abanyabuzaare baabo, kandi agire n’esente ezi yaabiika ahabw’ebiro by’omumaisho. Banywani be abaingi bakaba bagiire omu mahanga agandi kukora kugira ngu batunge esente nyingi. Kwonka we ku yaateekateekire aha ky’okuza omu ihanga erindi, akaba atarikumanya eky’okukora. Ahabw’enki?

² Marilyn akaba naatiina kutsigaho ab’omu ka ye n’entebeekanisa yaabo ey’eby’omwoyo. Kwonka nabwo, akateekateeka aha baabaire bagiireyo kandi okaba nooshusha oti bakaba nibakiheereza Yehova. Kwonka akaba naayebuuza oku araayorore omwana we obwo ari hare munonga nawe. Mbwenu shi, akaba naabaasa kworora omwana we kandi akamutendekyera omuri Yehova kurabira aha Intaneeti?​—Efe. 6:4.

³ Marilyn akasherura obuhabuzi. Iba akaba atarikwenda ngu Marilyn agyenda n’obu araabe yaamugizire ngu tarikwija kumuzibira kugyenda. Abareeberezi n’ab’eishe-emwe abamwe bakamuhabura ngu atagyenda, kwonka banyaanyazi-itwe baingi bakamugira ngu agyende aheeru. “Ku oraabe nookunda eka yaawe noija kugyenda,” nikwo baagizire. “Noobaasa kuguma nooheereza Yehova.” N’obu araabe yaabaire aine okubanganisa, Marilyn akasiibura James na Jimmy yaagyenda kukora omu ihanga erindi. “Tindikuza kumarayo bwire buraingwa,” nikwo yaabaraganiise.

OBUJUNAANIZIBWA BW’ABAZAIRE N’EMISINGYE YA BAIBULI

4. Ahabw’enki baingi nibaza omu mahanga agandi kukora, kandi ni baahi abu barikutsigira abaana baabo?

⁴ Yehova tarikwenda ngu abaheereza be babe abooro munonga, kandi ebyafaayo nibyoreka ngu abamwe batwire nibaza omu mahanga agandi barikuteeraho kwetambira obworo. (Zab. 37:25; Enf. 30:8) Yakobo akoohereza abaana be Misri kugura eby’okurya ahabw’okwenda ngu bataitwa enjara.b (Kut. 42:1, 2) Obunaku obu, baingi abarikuza omu mahanga agandi kukora tibarikuzayo ahabw’okugira ngu tibaine ky’okurya. Nibabaasa kuba baine amabanja g’okushashura. Abandi nibaba nibenda kuhwera eka yaabo kwongyera kuba gye. Ahabw’okwenda kuhikiiriza ebigyendererwa byabo eby’okuba gye, nibaza omu mahanga agandi ahu kyorobi kutunga sente juba. Emirundi erikukira obwingi, nibatsigaho abaana baabo bato kureebererwa omwe aha bazaire orikuba atsigaire omuka, bakuru baabo, baishenkurubo nari baanyinenkurubo, abanyabuzaare, nari abanywani. N’obu kiraabe nikikora kubi abo abarikuba nibaza aheeru kutsigaho abu bari nabo omu bushwere nari abaana baabo, nibareeba ngu nihaba hatariho ky’okukora.

5, 6. (a) Yesu akeegyesa ki aha bikwatiraine n’okushemererwa? (b) Ni bintu ki ebi Yesu yaagambiire abakuratsi be kushaba? (c) Yehova naatuha omugisha mu muringo ki?

⁵ Obu Yesu yaabaire akiri omu nsi, abantu baingi bakaba bari abooro bataine kihwera kandi nibabaasa kuba baateekateekire ngu baagira esente nyingi nibaija kugira okushemererwa. (Mak. 14:7) Kwonka Yesu akaba naayenda ngu abantu bate amatsiko gaabo omuri Yehova, obukomooko bw’obutungi obutarikuhwaho. Omu rubazo rwa Yesu orw’aha rushozi, akagira ngu okushemererwa okwabuzima tikurikuruga omu kugira ebintu nari omu kuteeraho kwaitu, kureka omu kugira omukago murungi na Tataitwe ow’omu iguru.

⁶ Yesu taratwegyeise kushaba kutunga sente kureka ebi turikwetenga buri izooba nibyo ‘by’okurya by’obutoosha.’ Akagambira abamuhurikiize ati: “Mutaryebiikira eitungo omu nsi . . . Kwonka mwebiikire eitungo omu iguru.” (Mat. 6:9, 11, 19, 20) Nitubaasa kugira obwesigye ngu Yehova naija kutuha emigisha nk’oku yaaraganiise. Yehova tarikugira ngu naija kutuha emigisha arikwikiriza ngu turi abaheereza be kwonka, kureka naagira eki yaakora arikutuha ebi turikwetenga. Buzima, omuringo gwonka ogw’okutungamu okushemererwa n’oburinzi, n’okwesiga Yehova, beitu zitari sente.​—Shoma Matayo 6:24, 25, 31-34.

7. (a) N’oha ou Yehova ahaire obujunaanizibwa bw’okworora abaana? (b) Ahabw’enki abazaire bombi baine kwejumba omu kwegyesa abaana baabo?

⁷ Okubanza kusherura okuhikiirira kwa Ruhanga nikitwariramu okureeba obujunaanizibwa bwawe omu ka nk’oku Yehova arikubureeba. Ebiragiro bya Musa birimu omusingye ogurikukwata aha abazaire Abakristaayo ngu baine kwegyesa abaana baabo omu by’omwoyo. (Shoma Eky’Ebiragiro 6:6, 7.) Ruhanga akaha abazaire obujunaanizibwa obwo, kandi tarabuhaire baishenkurubo nari baanyinenkurubo nari ondiijo muntu. Omugabe Sulemaani akagira ati: “Mwana wangye, guma ohurire ebi sho arikukuhabura, kandi otanga ebi nyoko arikukwegyesa.” (Enf. 1:8) Yehova naayenda ngu abazaire bombi babe bariho kuhwerahwerana kwegyesa abaana baabo. (Enf. 31:10, 27, 28) Bingi ebi abaana barikwegyera aha bazaire baabo, na munonga eby’omwoyo, nibabyega barikubahurira nibagamba ahari Yehova kandi barikubateeraho n’eky’okureeberaho.

EBI OTARIKUTEEKATEEKA NGU NIBIIJA KUBAHO

8, 9. (a) Nihabaho mpindahinduka ki omuzaire yaatsigaho ab’omu ka ye? (b) Abazaire n’abaana baaba batarikutuura hamwe, nikishiisha kita eka?

⁸ Baingi abarikuza omu mahanga agandi nibateekateeka aha buremeezi obu barikubaasa kutunga aheeru, kwonka abamwe tibarikuteekateeka aha buremeezi oburaabeho baatsigaho ob’omu maka gaabo. (Enf. 22:3)c Bwanyima ya Marilyn kuza omu ihanga erindi, akatandika kuhurira kubi ahabw’okutsigaho eka ye. Kandi iba n’omwana we nabo nikwo baayehuriire. Jimmy akaba abuuza nyina ati: “Ahabw’enki waantsigireho?” Marilyn akaba naayenda kumarayo ameezi makye, kwonka hakahinguraho emyaka yaatandika kureeba empindahinduka ezaabaire zitari nungi omuka ye. Jimmy akaba atakyenda kugamba nawe kandi atarikwenda n’okumugambira oku yaabaire naayehurira. Aine enaku, Marilyn naagira ati: “Rukundo ei yaabaire anyiniire ekahwaho.”

⁹ Abazaire baaba batarikutuura hamwe n’abaana baabo, enyehurira zaabo n’emitindo yaabo erikukwata aha kirungi n’ekibi nibihinduka.d Niheeyongyera kubaho oburemeezi abaana baaba bakiri bato, reero bakamara obwire buraingwa batari na bazaire baabo. Marilyn akashoboororera Jimmy ngu akaza aheeru ahabw’okwenda kumuhwera. Kwonka we Jimmy akaba naakireeba ngu nyina akaba amutsigireho atakimukunda. Omu kubanza, akamugirira ekiniga ahabw’okumutsigaho. Kwonka bwanyima, n’obu yaabaire agaruka kubataayaayira Jimmy akaba atashemererwa yaamureeba. Nk’oku kiri aha buri mwana orikutsigwaho omwe aha bazaire be, Jimmy nawe akakireeba ngu akaba atashemereire kworobera nyina n’okumukunda.​—Shoma Enfumu 29:15.

10. (a) Niki ekirikubaasa kuba aha baana, abazaire baabo baacwamu kubooherereza ebiconco omu mwanya gw’okuguma nabo? (b) Niki ekirikuba nikiburaho omuzaire yaaguma naareeberera abaana be ari hare nabo?

¹⁰ N’obu Marilyn yaateireho kuguma naayohereza esente n’ebiconco, akakireeba ngu ayetaaniise aha mwana we kandi atakigyendereire akaba ariyo naamwegyesa kwebembeza okusherura eby’obutungi omu mwanya gw’okwebembeza eby’omwoyo n’omukago gw’eka ye. (Enf. 22:6) Jimmy butoosha akaba amugira ati: “Otagaruka.” Kureka “guma nooyohereza ebiconco.” Marilyn akatandika kukimanya ngu tarikubaasa kworora omwana we kurabira omu kuhandiika amabaruha, kuteera esimu, nari vidiyo y’aha Intaneeti. Naashoboorora ati: “Kurabira aha Intaneeti torikubaasa kugwa omwana waawe omu kifuba nari kumusiibura nyekiro yaaba naaza kubyama.”

11. (a) Abashweraine baaba batarikutuura hamwe, nikibaasa kukwata kita aha bushwere bwabo? (b) Munyaanyazi-itwe omwe akamanya ata ngu aine kugaruka omu ka ye?

¹¹ Omukago gwa Marilyn na Yehova n’omushaija we James nagwo gukaba guriyo nigufa. Marilyn akaba naaza omu nteerane n’omu kubuurira omurundi gumwe buri saabiiti, kandi mukama we akaba aguma naamuteganisa arikwenda kushambana nawe. Ahabw’okugira ngu Marilyn na James bakaba batarikugaaniira hamwe, bakatandika kugambira abandi enyehurira zaabo kandi bakaba bari haihi kugwa omu bushambani. Marilyn akakireeba ngu n’obu we na iba bataragwire mu bushambani, okutatuura hamwe kikabareetera kutakuratira omusingye gwa Baibuli ogw’okwigutsa ekyetengo ky’okuteerana. Bakaba batarikubaasa kugaaniira, kureebana aha maisho, kumwenya hamwe, kukwatana omu ngaro, kwegwa omu kifuba, kworekana rukundo, nari kuhaana ‘ekishemereire’ omu bushwere. (Kyesh. 1:2; 1 Kor. 7:3, 5) Kandi bakaba batarikubaasa kuramya gye Yehova bari n’omwana waabo. Marilyn naagira ati: “Aha ruteerane oruhango orw’ebiro bishatu ku naamanyire ngu okuramya kw’eka ni kikuru kubaasa kuhonokaho aha kiro kikuru kya Yehova, nkamanya ngu nyine kugaruka omuka.” Naayongyeraho ati: “Nkatandika kweyombeka omu by’omwoyo n’okwombeka eka yangye.”

OBUHABUZI OBURUNGI HAMWE N’OBUBI

12. Ni buhabuzi ki kuruga omu Byahandiikirwe oburikubaasa kuheebwa abo abarikutuura hare n’ab’omu maka gaabo?

¹² Marilyn ku yaacwiremu kugaruka omu ka, abamwe bakamuha obuhabuzi burungi kandi abandi baamuha obubi. Abareeberezi omu kibiina eki yaabaire arimu aheeru, bakamusiima ahabw’okwikiriza kwe n’obumanzi bwe bw’okucwamu kutaaha. Kwonka abandi nabo abaabaire nibatuura aheeru batari n’abu bashweraine nabo, ekyo tibaraakisiimire. Omu mwanya gw’okumutooreza, bakateeraho kumubeihabeiha ngu atataaha. Bakamugira bati: “Noija kugaruka omu bwire bukye.” Kandi bakabamubuuza bati: “Noija kwebaisaho ota ku oraagarukye omuka?” Abakristaayo omu mwanya gw’okumaramu bagyenzi baabo amaani, baine kuhiga “abakazi bato kukunda baibabo n’abaana baabo . . . bakore emirimo yaabo omu maka” gaabo, kugira ngu “ekigambo kya Ruhanga kirekye kujumwa.”​—Shoma Tito 2:3-5.

13, 14. Ahabw’enki nikyetengyesa okugira okwikiriza kubaasa kwebembeza okukora ebi Yehova arikukunda omu mwanya gw’okwebembeza ebi ab’omu ka barikukunda? Shoboorora.

¹³ Baingi abarikuza omu mahanga agandi bakuriire omu nganda ezirikuha ekitiinisa abanyabuzaare na munonga abazaire, okukira ekindi kintu kyona. N’ahabw’ekyo, Omukristaayo kwanga eki abantu omu kicweka kye barikutwara nka kikuru akacwamu kushemeza Yehova, ekyo n’ekikorwa ky’okwikiriza.

¹⁴ Teekateeka aha byahikire ahari Carin: “Obu naazaara Don mutabani waitu, nyowe na ibanyi tukaba nitukorera aheeru, kandi nkaba ntandikire kwega Baibuli. Buri omwe omu ka yaitu akaba naamanya ngu ninza kwohereza Don omu ka, ayororwe abazaire bangye kuhitsya twatunga esente ezirikumara.” Kwonka Carin ku yaagizire ngu aine kureeberera Don, abanyabuzaare be otwariiremu na iba bakagira ngu Carin n’omunafu otarikwenda kukora. Carin naagira ati: “Mazima, naanye obumwe nkaba nteekateeka ngu tikiine nshonga kwohereza Don akaguma n’abazaire bangye kumara emyaka mikye.” Kwonka, “nkaba nimmanya ngu itwe abazaire, Yehova akatuha omurimo gw’okureeberera mutabani waitu.” Carin ku yaagizire enda endiijo, iba otari mu mazima akamugira ngu enda egyo agiihemu. Carin ahabw’okugira ngu akaba yaacwiremu gye enyima, ekyo kikaba kyahamize okwikiriza kwe, n’aha murundi ogu akabaasa kuhamira ahari Yehova. Hati we na iba hamwe n’abaana baabo omwojo n’omwishiki baine okushemererwa ahabw’okutuura hamwe. Ku ogire ngu Carin akacwamu ngu abaana be bakuzibwe abandi, obundi ebyakurugiremu bikaabaire bibi.

15, 16. (a) Ha eky’okureeberaho kya munyaanyazi-itwe owaatsigirweho omuzaire we akiri muto. (b) Ahabw’enki Vicky yaayangire kutsigira nyina muhare we?

¹⁵ Omujurizi wa Yehova orikwetwa Vicky naagira ati: “Kumara emyaka mikye, nkaba ntuura na maawenkuru, reero abazaire bangye barikutuura na munyaanyazi omuto. Obwire ku bwahikire naaza kutuura nabo, nkaba ntakibainiire rukundo. Munyaanyazi kikaba nikimworobera kugaaniira nabo, kubagwa omu kifuba, n’okuba hamwe nabo. Nkaba ntari haihi n’abazaire bangye, nangwa n’obu naakuzire, kikaba nikiingumira kubooreka enyehurira zangye. Nyowe na munyaanyazi tuhamiize abazaire baitu ngu nitwija kubareeberera ku baraakaikure. Nyowe ninyija kukikora ahabw’okugira ngu nyine kukikora, kwonka munyaanyazi we naija kukikora ahabw’okubakunda.”

¹⁶ Vicky naagira ati: “Maawe akaba naayenda ngu muhe muhara wangye amworore, nk’oku yaampaire nyina kunyorora. Omu muringo gw’obwengye nkanga.” Naagumizamu agira ati: “Nyowe na ibanyi nitwenda kworora omwana waitu arikumanya Yehova. Kandi tindikwenda ngu omu biro by’omumaisho omukago gwangye na muhara wangye gusiisikare.” Vicky areebire ngu omuringo gumwe gw’okuba omusinguzi, n’okwebembeza okukora ebi Yehova arikukunda hamwe n’emisingye ye, omu mwanya gw’okwebembeza okusherura sente hamwe n’ebi ab’omuka barikukunda. Yesu akagamba butunu ati: “Tihariho omuntu orikubaasa kuheereza abakama babiri,” Ruhanga hamwe n’eby’obutungi.​—Mat. 6:24; Kur. 23:2.

YEHOVA NAATUHWERA KUBA ABASINGUZI

17, 18. (a) Abakristaayo nibaba baine kucwamu aha bikwatiraine na nshonga ki? (b) Ni bibuuzo ki ebi turikuza kushwijuma omu kicweka ekirikukurataho?

¹⁷ Tataitwe Yehova, naaturaganisa kutuhwera kutunga ebi turikwetenga ku turaayebembeze okusherura eby’Obukama n’okuhikiirira kwe. (Mat. 6:33) N’ahabw’ekyo, Abakristaayo butoosha nibaba baine kucwamu kumuheereza. Kandi Yehova naaturaganisa kutuha “oburyo bw’okuhunga” twaba tutahenzire misingye ya Baibuli n’obu twakuba twine enshonga zigumire ez’okucwamu. (Shoma 1 Abakorinso 10:13.) Twategyereza Yehova twine amatsiko, kandi ‘tukamwesiga’ turikumushaba kutuha obwengye n’obuhabuzi, tukoorobera ebiragiro bye n’emisingye ye, naija kutuhwera. (Zab. 37:5, 7) Naija kutuha emigisha twaba niwe wenka ou twaheereza nka Mukama waitu. Twayebembeza obuheereza bwe, naija kutuhwera kuba abasinguzi.​—Gyeragyeranisa na Okutandika 39:3.

¹⁸ Niki ekirikubaasa kukorwa kugaruraho omukago ogwasiisikaire ahabw’okutatuura hamwe? Nitubaasa kukora ki kubaasa kureeberera ab’omu maka gaitu tutagiire kukorera hare nabo? Omu muringo gwa rukundo nitubaasa kuhiga tuta abandi kucwamu gye aha bikwatiraine n’okukorera aheeru? Omu kicweka ekirikukurataho nitwija kushwijuma enshonga ezi.