Peno tinkufuna kupitiriza kufamba ninge ‘wana wa kugwerewera,’ isepano tichadekana thandizo ya mzimu uchena. Ndawa chani? Ndawa yakuti ni voshupa kupitiriza kukhala ochena m’makhalidwe mu dziko yoipa yomwe tinkukhala ino. (1 Ates. 4:3-5, 7, 8) Mzimu uchena udzathandize kuti tilimbane na maganizo ya dziko yomwe yankuphatanidzapo maganizo ya wanthu yomwe yabveranalini na vomwe Yahova achafuna. Mzimu uchena ungatithandize pomwe kuchita vinthu vomwe ni ‘vabwino vachilungamo komasoti va chonadi.’ (Aef. 5:9) Njira inango yomwe tingatambirire mzimu uchena ni pemphero. Yesu adalewa kuti Yahova “adzapereke mzimu uchena kwa omwe amukumbira.” (Luka 11:13) Kuingizira pamwapa tikambatamanda Yahova pa misonkhano, tichatambira pomwe mzimu uchena. (Aef. 5:19, 20) Makhalidwe yabwino yomwe mzimu uchena utipasa ni yomwe yadzatithandize kuchita vinthu vomwe vikondweresa Yahova. w24.03 tsa. 23-24 ndi. 13-15

Ko munkufuna kukhala wodekha? Peno nteno pempherani. Kudekha ni khalidwe ya vipaso va mzimu. (Agal. 5:22, 23) Ndipomwapa tichadekana kupemphera kwa Yahova kukumbira mzimu uchena kuti utithandize kuti tikwanise kukhala na makhalidwe mwaya yomwe yachachita mbali ya vipatso va mzimu. Tikakhala kuti tagumana na bvuto yomwe ingayese khalidwe yathu ya kudekha, tichadekana ‘kupitiriza kukumbira’ mzimu uchena kuti utithandize kupitiriza kukhala odekha. (Luka 11:13) Kuingizira mwapa, tichadekana kukumbira Yahova kuti atithandize kuona vinthu ninge momwe iye achaonera. Kuingizira pa kupemphera tichadeka kuchita vomwe tingakwanise kuti tikhale odekha ntsiku iliyose. Tikambapemphera kukumbira kuti tikhale odekha na kuchitambo vomwe tingakwanise pa mbali yathu, khalidwe mweyi idzazike mizu muntima mwathu na kukhala mbali ya umunthu wathu. Vithandiza pomwe kuti mumbaganizire. vitsanzo va m’Baibolo. Baibolo ifotokoza vitsanzo va wanthu azinji omwe wenze odekha. Tikambaganira vitsanzo mwevi, tingapfunzire njira zomwe tingaonesere kudekha. w23.08 tsa. 22 ndi. 10-11

Yesu adamutsimikizira Petulo kuti Yahova adzamusamalire. Pambuyo pakuti Yesu wamukisiwa adachitisa Petulo na atumi anango kuti aphepomwe ntsomba zizinji modabwisa. (Yoh. 21:4-6) Mosakayika chodabwisa mwechi chidachitisapomwe kuti Petulo abvesese kuti Yahova angamupase mosashupa vinthu vakuthupi vomwe iye angadekana. Panango Petulo adakumbukira mawu ya Yesu yomwe iye adanena kuti: Yahova adzasamalire ose omwe ‘aikha Ufumu wa Mulungu pa malo yoyamba.’ (Mat. 6:33) Vose vimwevi vidathandiza Petulo kuti ambayikhe basa ya kulalikira pa malo ya kuyamba osati pa bizi yake ya ntsomba. Iye wenze wolimba moyo ndipo adalalikira mu Pentekosite 33 Yesu wayenda kale kudzulu. Adathandiza wanthu mamidyau yazinji kubvuma ntontholo wabwino. (Mac. 2:14, 37-41) Patsogolo pake adathandiza Asamariya na wanthu wa makhaindi yanango. (Mac. 8:14-17; 10:44-48) Mosakayika, Yahova adaphatisa basa Petulo modabwisa kuti adzathandize wanthu wa makhaindi yose kukhala Akhrisitu. w23.09 tsa. 20 ndi. 1; tsa. 23 ndi. 11