Kulungiselela Tinkhulumo Tebafundzi

SABELO ngasinye lositfolako esikolweni sikunika litfuba lekutfutfuka. Timisele, futsi nawenta njalo utawuyibona intfutfuko yakho, nalabanye bantfu batawuyibona. (1 Thim. 4:15) Lesikolwa sitakusita kutsi uwatfutfukise kakhulu emakhono akho.

Uba neluvalo yini nawucabanga ngekwetfula inkhulumo embikwelibandla? Loko kuyintfo levamile ngisho nobe sewunesikhatsi lesidze ubhalisile esikolweni. Kodvwa-ke kukhona lokungakusita kutsi unciphise luvalo. Nawusekhaya, tetayete kufundza ngelivi lelivakalako. Nawusemihlanganweni yelibandla, phendvula kanyenti, futsi nangabe sewungummemeteli, hlanganyela njalo ensimini. Kwenta njalo kutawenta kutsi ube nalokuhlangenwe nako ekukhulumeni nelinyenti. Ngetulu kwaloko, tilungiselele kahle tinkhulumo takho kusenesikhatsi uphindze uphrakthize kutibeka ngelivi lelivakalako. Khumbula kutsi inkhulumo yakho utayetfula embikwebantfu labanelutsandvo. Thantaza kuJehova ngembikwekutsi wetfule nome nguyiphi inkhulumo. Yena uyakujabulela kutinika umoya longcwele tinceku takhe nangabe tiwucela.​—Luk. 11:13; Fil. 4:6, 7.

Ungalindzeli kwenta lokungetulu kwemandla akho. Kutsatsa sikhatsi kuba sikhulumi nobe umfundzisi lonelikhono. (Mik. 6:8) Nawusandza kubhalisa esikolweni, ungalindzeli kutsi utawuvele ubeke inkhulumo lesezingeni lelisetulu. Esikhundleni saloko, sebentela ephuzwini linye ngesikhatsi. Tadisha sifundvo lesimayelana nalelo phuzu kulencwadzi. Nawungakhona, yenta nesivivinyo lesikuleso sifundvo. Loko kutakusita kutsi wetayelane neliphuzu losebentela kulo ngembikwekutsi wetfule inkhulumo yakho ebandleni. Nawenta njalo utawutfutfuka.

Indlela Yekulungiselela Sabelo Sekufundza

Kulungiselela kufundzela linyenti kufaka ekhatsi lokungetulu kwekumane nje ufundze emagama alokwatiswa lowabelwe kona. Timisele kucondza kahle kutsi lokwatiswa kukhuluma ngani. Ngekushesha nje nawutfola sabelo sakho, sifundze unalowo mgomo engcondvweni. Yetama kucondza lokushiwo ngumusho ngamunye kanye nemcondvo lovetwa sigaba ngasinye kute ukwati kwendlulisela emaphuzu njengobe anjalo kanye nangemiva lefanele. Nakungenteka, hlola sichazamagama kuze utfole indlela emagama longakawetayeli labitwa ngayo nobe ubute kulabalwati kahle lololwimi kutsi abitwa njani. Kwetayele kahle loko lotawukufundza. Batali kungadzingeka kutsi basite bantfwana babo labancane kute bakhone kwenta loku.

Uke wabelwa yini kutsi ufundze incenye letsite yeliBhayibheli nobe tigaba ku-Sicongosekulindza? Nangabe loko kwatiswa kutsetjuliwe ngelulwimi lwakho, kungaba lusito kakhulu kutsi ukulalele futsi unake indlela labitwa ngayo emagama kanye nemishwana, indlela yekugcizelela kanye neyekushintjashintja livi. Yetama kukusebentisa loko nasewufundza.

Nasewutadisha sabelo sakho, sifundze ngekucophelela nesifundvo lowabelwe sona. Nawungakhona, sibukete lesifundvo ngemuva kwekuphrakthiza kufundza lokwatiswa lowabelwe kona ngelivi lelivakalako tikhatsi letinyenti. Yetama konkhe lokusemandleni akho kunamatsela kuloko lokushiwo ngulesifundvo.

Lokuceceshwa kutakusita ensimini. Nawusensimini uba nematfuba lamanyenti ekufundzela labanye. Njengobe liVi laNkulunkulu linemandla ekugucula kuphila kwebantfu, kubalulekile kutsi ulifundze kahle. (Heb. 4:12) Ungalindzeli kutsi utawuvele ukhone kufundza kahle esabelweni sakho sekucala nobe sesibili. Ngesikhatsi akhuluma nalomdzala longumKhristu lonalokuhlangenwe nako, Pawula watsi: “Chubeka utimisela ekufundzeleni linyenti.”​—1 Thim. 4:13.

Kusebentisa Sihloko Kanye Nekuhlelwa Kwenkhulumo

Kufanele wente njani nangabe esikolweni utfole sabelo lesidzinga kuhlelwa kwenkhulumo?

Kufanele ucabangele nati tintfo letintsatfu: (1) sihloko senkhulumo yakho, (2) kuhlelwa kwenkhulumo kanye nemuntfu lotawube ucoca naye, (3) nesifundvo lowabelwe kusebentela kuso.

Kufanele utfole kwatiswa kwesihloko lowabelwe sona. Usengakachubeki kakhulu naloko, cabangisisa ngekuhlelwa kwenkhulumo yakho kanye nangemuntfu lotawucoca naye, njengobe utawuncuma ngako kutsi ngukuphi kwatiswa lotakusebentisa nendlela lotakwetfula ngayo. Utawusebentisa kuphi kuhlelwa kwenkhulumo? Utawube ukhombisa indlela yekushumayela kumuntfu lomatiko yini nobe utawube ukhombisa loko lokungase kwenteke nawucoca nemuntfu kwekucala? Lomuntfu lococa naye ungakanani kuwe? Utakutsatsa njani loko lohlele kutsi nitawucoca ngako? Kungakanani lasavele akwati? Ngumuphi umgomo lofisa kuwufinyelela ngaloko lenitawucoca ngako? Timphendvulo taleyo mibuto titakuniketa ticondziso letibalulekile mayelana naloko lokufanele ukwente.

Utakutfolaphi kwatiswa kwesihloko lowabelwe sona? Emakhasini 33 kuya ku-38 alencwadzi, kunesehluko lesitsi “Indlela Yekucwaninga.” Sifundze lesehluko bese usebentisa emathulusi ekucwaninga lonawo. Etikhatsini letinyenti utawusheshe utfole kwatiswa lokunyenti kunaloko longakusebentisa. Kufundze kahle kute utfole kutsi kungakanani longakusebentisa. Kodvwa-ke njengobe wenta loko, kukhumbule kuhlelwa kwenkhulumo lotakusebentisa kanye nemuntfu lotawube ucoca naye. Bekisa emaphuzu lotawasebentisa.

Ngembikwekutsi uhlele inkhulumo yakho futsi ucedze kukhetsa emaphuzu lotawasebentisa, fundza sifundvo losebentela kuso. Kusebentisa sicondziso saso ngulenye injongo lebalulekile yesabelo sakho.

Nangabe wetfula inkhulumo yakho ngesikhatsi lowabelwe sona, utawukhona kuyiphetsa kahle, njengobe kutawukhonjiswa ngeluphawu lolutsite nangabe sikhatsi sakho sesiphelile. Nanobe kunjalo, nasisensimini sikhatsi akusiyo intfo lehamba embili ngaso sonkhe sikhatsi. Ngako-ke njengobe ulungiselela, sinake sikhatsi lonikwe sona, kodvwa ciniseka kutsi ufundzisa ngendlela lephumelelako.

Sicondziso Mayelana Nekuhlelwa Kwenkhulumo. Bukisisa kuhlelwa kwenkhulumo lokusekhasini 82 bese ukhetsa lokusebentako ensimini yakini kanye nalokutakusita uvete kutsi kusebenta njani kwatiswa lowabelwe kona. Nangabe sewunesikhatsi kulesikolwa, loko kutsatse njengelitfuba lekutfutfuka kanye nekutfutfukisa emakhono akho ensimini.

Nangabe umbonisi weSikolwa Semsebenti WemaKhristu akwabele kuhlelwa kwenkhulumo, kusebentise. Kuhlelwa kwenkhulumo lokunyenti kumayelana nekufakaza. Nangabe ungazange sewufakaze etimeni letichazwe kulokuhlelwa kwenkhulumo lowabelwe kona, cela lusito ngekukhuluma nebamemeteli labake bakwenta. Nakungenteka, coca ngesihloko lowabelwe sona usebentisa indlela lefana nekuhlelwa kwenkhulumo lotawukusebentisa esikolweni. Loko kutakusita kutsi uwufinyelele umgomo wekuceceshwa kwakho.

Nangabe Utakwetfula Inkhulumo

Nangabe umdvuna, kungenteka kutsi wabelwe kwetfula inkhulumo lemfishane ebandleni. Nawulungiselela tinkhulumo letinjalo, emaphuzu lokufanele uwacabangele ayafanana nalawo lokukhulunywe ngawo lapha ngenhla lasebenta etinkhulumeni letetfulwa njengemiboniso. Umehluko lomkhulu kuba ngulabo labakulalele kanye nendlela yekuyetfula.

Kuhle kutsi ulungiselele inkhulumo yakho ngendlela yekutsi bonkhe labakulalele bazuze kuyo. Labanyenti kubo sebavele bayawati emaciniso eliBhayibheli lasisekelo. Kungenteka nekutsi bayetayele nendzaba lowabelwe kukhuluma ngayo. Cabanga ngaloko lesebavele bakwati ngayo. Yetama kutsi indlela loyetfula ngayo ibente bazuze kulenkhulumo yakho. Tibute: ‘Ngingasisebentisa njani lesihloko kuze ngikhulise lizinga mine nalabo labangilalele lesimati ngalo Jehova? Kulenkhulumo, yini lengasisita kutsi siyicondze intsandvo yaNkulunkulu? Ingasisita njani kutsi sente tincumo letikahle kulelive lelilawulwa tifiso tenyama?’ (Ef. 2:3) Kute utfole timphendvulo letenetisako talemibuto kudzingeka ucwaninge. Nawufundza imiBhalo, ungayifundzeli nje kugcina licala. Yichaze kahle, futsi ukhombise kutsi isisekela njani siphetfo lesifinyelela kuso. (Imis. 17:2, 3) Ungetami kuhlanganisa kwatiswa lokunyenti kakhulu. Yetfula inkhulumo yakho ngendlela letawukwenta kutsi kube melula kuyikhumbula.

Nawulungiselela inkhulumo kufanele unake nendlela yekuyetfula. Ungakutsatsi kancane loku. Nawuphrakthiza kuyetfula, loko kwente ngelivi lelivakalako. Kutadisha ngekutimisela kanye nekwenta loko lokushiwo tifundvo letehlukehlukene kutakusita kakhulu ekutfutfukeni kwakho. Nobe ngabe usikhulumi lesisesisha nobe sewunesikhatsi, lungiselela kahle kute ukhulume ngekuciniseka kanye nangemiva lefanelana nenkhulumo yakho. Nawenta sabelo ngasinye kulesikolwa, wukhumbule njalo umgomo wakho wekusebentisa sipho sekukhuluma losiphiwe nguNkulunkulu kute umdvumise.​—Hla. 150:6.