vaaivali seks enbadhum seksthaanaa?

amerikkaavin nōi kattuppaadu matrum thaduppu maiyam, 15 mudhal 18 vayadhukku utpatta niraiya ilainyargalai pētti edutthu ōr arikkaiyai veliyittadhu. andha ilainyargalil kittatthatta paadhi pēr vaaivali seksil īdupattirundhadhaaga andha arikkai sonnadhu. “[vaaivali seks patri] tīnējargalidam kēttaal, ‘idhula enna irukku?’ endrudhaan asaaltaaga solgiraargal. paarkkappōnaal, vaaivali seks enbadhu seksē illai endrudhaan avargal ninaikkiraargal” endru ōral seks is dha niyū gudnait kis endra butthagatthai eludhiya shaarlīn ēsam solgiraar.

• nīngal enna ninaikkirīrgal?

• unmai enna?

• kadavul enna ninaikkiraar endru therindhukolvadhu ēn mukkiyam?

nīngal enna ninaikkirīrgal?

indha kēlvigalukku badhil sollungal.

1. vaaivali seks mūlam oru pen garppamaaga mudiyumaa?

   1. mudiyum

   2. mudiyaadhu

2. vaaivali seks vaitthukkolvadhaal ēdhaavadhu nōi varumaa?

   1. varum

   2. varaadhu

3. vaaivali seks enbadhum seksthaanaa?

   1. aamaam

   2. illai

unmai enna?

ungal badhilgalaiyum kīlē irukkum badhilgalaiyum oppittu paarungal.

1. vaaivali seks mūlam oru pen garppamaaga mudiyumaa?

   badhil: mudiyaadhu. vaaivali seksil endha aabatthum illai endru niraiya pēr thappukkanakku pōduvadharku oru kaaranam idhudhaan.

2. vaaivali seks vaitthukkolvadhaal ēdhaavadhu nōi varumaa?

   badhil: varum. vaaivali seks vaitthukkondaal kallīral alarchi (hepatitis A alladhu B), pirappuruppu marukkal (genital warts), vettai nōi (gonorrhea), padarthaamarai (herpes), HIV, kirandhi (syphilis) pōndra thotrunōigal varalaam.

3. vaaivali seks enbadhum seksthaanaa?

   badhil: aamaam. paaliyal inbatthukkaaga innoruvarin pirappuruppai endha vidhatthil thottaalum adhu seksthaan. adhaavadhu saadhaarana udaluravu mattumallaamal, vaaivali seks, aasanavaai seks, innoruvarin pirappuruppai kilarchiyadaiya seivadhu pōndra ellaamē seksthaan.

kadavul enna ninaikkiraar endru therindhukolvadhu ēn mukkiyam?

vaaivali seks patri kadavul enna ninaikkiraar endru purindhukolla udhavum sila baibil vasanangalai paarungal.

baibil vasanam: ‘nīngal . . . paaliyal muraikēttukku vilagiyirukka vēndum enbadhu kadavuludaiya viruppam.’—1 thesalōnikkēyar 4:3.

baibilil ‘paaliyal muraikēdu’ enbadhu, paaliyal inbatthukkaaga seiyappadum ellaa vidhamaana muraiyatra seyalgalaiyum kurikkiradhu. adhaavadhu, manatthunaiyaaga illaadhavarōdu vaitthukkollum udaluravu, adhōdu vaaivali seks, aasanavaai seks, innoruvarin pirappuruppai kilarchiyadaiya seivadhu pōndra ellaavatraiyumē idhu kurikkiradhu. paaliyal muraikēttil īdupadum oruvar vibarīdhamaana vilaivugalai sandhikka vēndiyirukkalaam. sollappōnaal, kadavulōdu irukkum bandhatthaiyē ilandhuvidalaam. idhaivida kodumai vēru edhuvum illai!—1 pēdhuru 3:12.

baibil vasanam: “paaliyal muraikēttil īdupadugiravan than udalukku edhiraagavē paavam seigiraan.”—1 korindhiyar 6:18.

vaaivali seks vaitthukkondaal nōigal varalaam, kadavulōdu irukkum bandham murindhuvidalaam, adhōdu palavidhamaana unarchigal nammai paadaai padutthalaam. “thirumanatthukku munbu yaarudanaavadhu udaluravu vaitthukkolgiravargal silasamayam adhai ninaitthu varutthappadugiraargal. oruvarudaiya ichaikku iraiyaagivittōmō, verum kaamapporulaagivittōmō endrellaam ninaitthu pulungugiraargal. endha vidhamaana seks vaitthukkondaalum idhē gadhidhaan ērpadugiradhu” endru solgiradhu taakking seks vith yuvar kids endra butthagam.

baibil ippadi solgiradhu: “yegōvaavaagiya naanē ungal kadavul. ungalukku prayōjanamaanadhai naan katrukkodukkirēn.”—ēsaayaa 48:17.

ungaludaiya nalladhukkutthaan seks sambandhappatta sattangalai kadavul kodutthirukkiraar endru nīngal nambugirīrgalaa? alladhu, andha sattangal ungal sudhandhiratthai kattuppadutthuvadhupōl therigiradhaa? niraiya vandigal pōikkondirukkum oru periya nedunjaalaiyai yōsitthu paarungal. evvalavu vēgatthil pōga vēndum, engē nirka vēndum endrellaam sollum valikaatti palagaigalum signalgalum angangē vaikkappattirukkum. andha palagaigalum signalgalum ungalukku thollai koduppadhaaga ninaippīrgalaa alladhu ungal uyirai paadhugaappadhaaga ninaippīrgalaa? nīngalō matravargalō adhaiyellaam kandukollaamal vittuvittaal enna nadakkum?

kadavuludaiya sattangalum adhē maadhiridhaan. andha sattangalai nīngal kandukollaamal vittuvittaal, mōsamaana vilaivugalai nichayam sandhippīrgal! (galaatthiyar 6:7) seks smaart endra butthagam ippadi solgiradhu: “ungaludaiya nambikkaigalaiyum kolgaigalaiyum vittukkodutthuvittu, ungalukku sariyaai padaadha vishayangalai seiyumpōdhu suyamariyaadhaiyai ilakka aarambitthuviduvīrgal.” adharku badhilaaga, kadavul solvadhai kēttu nadandhaal, olukkamaana pen alladhu olukkamaana paiyan endra peyareduppīrgal. adhaivida mukkiyamaaga, sutthamaana manasaatchiyōdu nimmadhiyaaga vaalvīrgal.—1 pēdhuru 3:16.