ennai patri yaaraavadhu kisukisutthaal enna seiya vēndum?

adhu ēn valikkiradhu?

sila puraligal aabatthaanadhu. avatril ondru, vēndumendrē nammudaiya peyarai kedukka vēndum enbadharkaaga solgira poigal. aanaal ellaa puraligalum avvalavu aabatthaanadhu kidaiyaadhu. irundhaalum, silasamayam adhu namakku valikkum. adhuvum nammudan romba nerukkamaaga irukkira oruvarē vadhandhigalai parappumpōdhu namakku romba vēdhanaiyaaga irukkum.​—sangīdham 55:12-​14.

“matravargalai patri enakku kavalaiyē illai endru en frend ennai patri mudhugukku pinnaadi pēsinaal. manadhē norungivittadhu. aval ēndhaan appadi sonnaal endru enakku puriyavē illai.”​—aashli.

nijam: ungalai patri purali pēsiyadhu ungal best frendaaga irundhaalum sari vēra yaaraaga irundhaalum sari, adhu paagarkaai pōl kasakkatthaan seiyum.

matravargal vaayai ungalaal adaikka mudiyaadhu.

makkal niraiya kaaranangalukkaaga kisukisuppaargal. silavatrai ippōdhu paarkkalaam.

unmaiyaana akkarai. podhuvaaga manidhargalukku ellaaridamum pēsi palaguvadhu romba pidikkum. adhanaal matravargalidam pēsuvadhu, matravargalai patri pēsuvadhu iyalbaana vishayamdhaan. sollappōnaal, ōralavukku “matravargaludaiya nalanilum akkarai kaattungal” endru baibilum urchaagappadutthugiradhu.​—pilippiyar 2:4.

“matravargalai patri pēsuvadhu endraalē lattu saappidugira maadhiridhaan!”​—byaangaa.

“idhai naan otthukkollatthaan vēndum. matravargal vaalkkaiyil enna nadakkiradhu endru therindhukolvadhu, adhai patri matravargalidam pēsuvadhu enakku romba pidikkum. ēn endrellaam theriyavillai, aanaal idhu jaaliyaaga irukkiradhu.”​—kētti.

taim paas. baibil kaalangalil makkal “pudhuppudhu vishayangalai pēsuvadhilum kētpadhilumdhaan poludhai kalitthaargal.” (appōsthalar 17:21) indraikkum makkal adhaitthaan seigiraargal!

“sila samayatthil svaarasyamaana seidhi edhuvum kidaikkavillai endraal makkalē adhai uruvaakkividuvaargal. appōdhu thaanē pēsuvadharku ēdhaavadhu oru vishayam irukkum.”​—jōvannaa.

thaalvu manappaanmai. matravargalōdu oppittu paarkkira palakkatthai valartthukkolla kūdaadhu endru baibil solvadhu nam nanmaikkaagatthaan. (galaatthiyar 6:4) ēnendraal matravargalōdu oppittu paarkkumpōdhu thaalvu manappaanmai varalaam. appadi thaalvu manappaanmaiyōdu irukkira silar avargalidam irukkum indha prachinaiyai mūdi maraikka, matravargalai patri thappu thappaaga puraligalai parappugiraargal.

“podhuvaaga oruvar matravargalai patri illaadhadhaiyum pollaadhadhaiyum pēsumpōdhu kisukisukkum andha nabar eppadippattavar enbadhu thelivaaga therindhuvidugiradhu. niraiya samayangalil oruvarai patri purali pēsuvadharkaana kaaranamē manadhil irukkira poraamaidhaan. appadi matravargalai patri thappaaga pēsumpōdhu andha nabaraivida thaan periya aal endru thōndralaam. adhu avargal manadhukku idhamaaga irukkalaam.”​—fil.

nijam: makkal kandippaaga matravargalai patri pēsuvaargal​—ungalai patriyumdhaan.

adhai samaalippadhu eppadi?

ungalai patri paravugira ellaa vadhandhigalaiyum ungalaal thadukka mudiyaadhu. aanaal, andha samayangalil nīngal eppadi nadandhukolvīrgal enbadhai ungalaal thērndhedukka mudiyum. adharku ungal kaivasam irandu aapshangal irukkindrana.

aapshan 1: kandukkaamal vittuviduvadhu. oruvēlai purali romba saadhaaranamaaga irundhaal, adhai appadiyē kandukkaamal vittuviduvadhu romba nalladhu. “sattendru kōbappadaadhīrgal” endru baibil solvadhupōl naam nadakkalaam.​—prasangi 7:9.

“naan oru paiyanōdu dētting seigirēn endru oru puraliyai kilappivittaargal. idharku munbu andha paiyanai naan paartthadhukūda kidaiyaadhu. kētpadharkē romba kaamediyaaga irundhadhu. adhanaal naan adhai appadiyē kandukkaamal vittuvittēn.”​—elīs.

“puraligalai virattiyadikkira oru best aayudham nīngal edukkira nalla peyardhaan. ungalukku nalla peyar irukkumpōdhu ungalai patri thavaraana oru purali paravinaalum, ellaarum adhai nambivida maattaargal. kadaisiyil unmaidhaan jeyikkum.”​—alisan.

tips: (1) ungalai patri enna puraligalai parappinaargal (2) adhai kēttapōdhu ungalukku eppadi irundhadhu endrellaam eludhungal. manadhil iruppadhaiyellaam nīngal kottiya piragu, ungal baaram kuraindha maadhiri irukkum.​—sangīdham 4:4.

aapshan 2: puraliyai parappa aarambitthavaridamē pēsungal. silasamayatthil, ungalai patri romba mōsamaana oru purali paraviyirukkiradhu endru theriya vandhaal, adhai parappa aarambitthavaridam kandippaaga pōi pēsungal.

“ungalai patri purali pēsugira nabaridam pōi pēsungal. appōdhudhaan, yaarai patri avar purali pēsinaarō adhu andha nabarudaiya kaadhukkē pōyirukkiradhu endru purindhukolvaar. adhōdu, ungalaal andha prachinaiyaiyum sariseidhukolla mudiyum.”​—elīs.

ungalai patri vadhandhigalai parappiya oruvaridam pōi pēsuvadharku munbu, sila baibil niyamangalai yōsitthu paarungal. ungalaiyē indha kēlvigalai kēttukkollungal.

• “oru vishayatthai mulumaiyaaga kētpadharkumun badhil solvadhu muttaalthanam.”(nīdhimoligal 18:13) ‘enakku ellaa unmaigalum theriyumaa? ippadiyoru purali paraviyirukkiradhu endru ennidam vandhu sonna nabar adhai sariyaagatthaan kēttaaraa alladhu, adhai thavaraaga purindhirukka vaaippu irukkiradhaa?’

• “ovvoruvarum nandraaga kaadhukodutthu kētkiravargalaagavum, yōsitthu nidhaanamaaga pēsugiravargalaagavum irukka vēndum, sattendru kōbappadaadhavargalaagavum irukka vēndum.” (yaakkōbu 1:19) ‘puraliyai parappiyavaridam pōi pēsuvadharku idhu sariyaana nēramaaga irukkumaa? andha vishayatthai patri unarchivasappadaamal nyaayamaaga ennaal pēsa mudiyumaa? alladhu, manasu amaidhi aagumvarai konjam nēram naan kaatthirukka vēndumaa?’

• “matravargal ungalukku edhaiyellaam seiya vēndumendru virumbugirīrgalō, adhaiyellaam nīngalum avargalukku seiya vēndum.” (matthēyu 7:12) ‘oruvēlai puraliyai kilabpiya nabarudaiya idatthil naan irundhirundhaal, matravargal ennidam vandhu eppadi pēsa vēndum endru naan edhirpaarppēn? endha maadhiriyaana sūlnilaiyil indha prachinaiyai patri pēsa vēndum endru edhirpaarppēn? enna sonnaal alladhu, eppadi nadandhukondaal nandraaga irukkum endru ninaippēn?’

tips: vadhandhigalai parappiya oruvaridam pōi pēsuvadharku munbu avaridam nīngal ennavellaam pēsa vēndum endru ninaitthirukkirīrgal endru eludhungal. oru vaaram alladhu irandu vaarangal kalitthu nīngal eludhiyadhai marubadiyum padiyungal. adhil ēdhaavadhu maatram seiya vēndumaa endru paarungal. idhai patri ungal appaa-ammaavidam illaiyendraal, mudhirchiyulla oru nanbaridam pēsungal. avargalidam aalōsanai kēlungal.

nijam: vaalkkaiyil nadakkira niraiya vishayangalai pōlavē kisukisukkalaiyum ungalaal thadukka mudiyaadhu. aanaal adharkaaga adhan kattuppaattukkul nīngal irukka vēndum endru endha avasiyamum illai!