Mbomukonzya Kumana Mazwanga Mumukwasyi

INO MBUTI kuti mumukwasyi wanu lyoonse mulazwangana? Ambweni mazwanga lino alacitika kanji-kanji alimwi aindila. Alimwi ambweni tamuzyi kuzwangana ambokwakatalika. Nokuba boobo, mulayandana alimwi tamuyandi kubisizyanya.

Cilayandika ikuzyiba kuti kwiindana mbomuyeeya tacaambi kuti buumi bwanu mumukwasyi bwanyongana. Icikonzya kupa kuti kakuli luumuno naa pe, taali mazwanga pele zintu nzyomucita kujatikizya mazwanga aabuka. Amubone zintu zimwi zikonzya kumugwasya kumana mazwanga.

1. MUTANOOJOKEZYI.

Kuzwangana inga kujatikizya bantu bobilo, pele kuti umwi watalika kuswiilila muciindi cakwaambaula, kuzwangana kulaceya. Aboobo, amusolekesye kutajokezya kuti bamunyemya. Kwiinda mukulilesya mulakonzya kulijanina bulemu. Amuzyibe kuti kuba aluumuno mumukwasyi cilayandika kapati kwiinda kuzyiba kuti nguni uujisi mulandu.

“Kuti kakunyina nkuni mulilo ulazima, alimwi ikuti kakunyina sikubejekezya mazwanga alamana.”—Tusimpi 26:20.

2. AMUBIKKILE MAANO MBWALIMVWA MUNAMUKWASYI.

Kuswiilila cakubikkila maano kakunyina kunjila umwi mukanwa naa kumuyeeyela zintu zitako kulakonzya kucesya bukali bwaumwi akuleta luumuno alimwi. Muciindi cakumuyeeyela zintu zitaluzi, amumvwisye muntu mbwalimvwa. Zintu zitaluzi nzyakonzya kucita muntu akaambo kakutalondoka mutanooziyeeyeli kuti wazicita amakanze aatali kabotu. Majwi aacisizya moyo alakonzya kwaambwa ikutali akaambo kakuti muntu uyanda kupilusizya cibi, pele ambweni akaambo kakuti tanaayeeya kabotu naa kucisa kwamoyo.

“Amulisamike luyando lwamoyo walubomba, luzyalo, kulicesya, kubomba moyo alimwi akukkazika moyo.”—Bakolose 3:12.

3. AMULINDILE KUTEGWA MOYO UKKALE.

Ikuti naa mulafwambaana kunyema, ncamaano kulomba kuzwa akuya kumbi kwaciindi cisyoonto kutegwa moyo ukkale. Ambweni mulakonzya kuunka muluumu iimbi naa kweenda kuya kumbi kusikila moyo wakkala. Eeci tacaambi kuti tamuyandi kubandika. Muciindi caboobo, eeci inga caba ciindi cibotu cakupaila kuli Leza kuti amugwasye kukkazika moyo alimwi akumvwisya.

“Kubwesyanya kakutanatalika, kozwa buyo aawo.”—Tusimpi 17:14.

4. AMUBIKKILE MAANO ICEELEDE KWAAMBWA AMBOCEELEDE KWAAMBWA.

Ikuti mwabikkila maano kubelesya majwi aakonzya kumucisizya moyo muntu umwi, tacikonzyi kugwasya pe. Muciindi caboobo amusole kwaamba majwi aakonzya kupa munamukwasyi iwanyemede kulimvwa kabotu. Alimwi muciindi cakuyeeyela mbwalimvwide, cakulicesya amumubuzye mbwalimvwa alimwi amulumbe lugwasyo luli loonse ndwakonzya kumupa.

“Majwi aambwa cakutayeeya alayasa mbuli panga, pele mulaka wabasongo ulaponya.”—Tusimpi 12:18.

5. KAMWAAMBAUDA ANSI ALIMWI MUNZILA IIYAKA.

Kutakkazika moyo kwamunamukwasyi kulakonzya kukalazya umwi. Amusolekesye kutabelesya majwi aasampaula naa aatukila naa kukkwezyeka jwi lyanu nokuba kuti mwanyema buti. Amweelebe majwi aacisizya moyo mbuli aakuti, “Tondibikkili maano” naa aakuti “Lyoonse tondiswiilili.” Muciindi caboobo, amumwaambile cabubombe ngomukwetene limwi mbomulimvwa kujatikizya nzyaacita (“Inga tandimvwi kabotu ciindi nomu. . . ”). Tamweelede kumutonka muntu cankazi, kumuuma mbayi naa cibbaka naa nzila buyo zimwi zyakulwana. Alimwi ncimwi buyo kujatikizya kunonga, kubelesya majwi aakusampaula alimwi aakukonga.

“Amuzisowe zintu zyoonse eezyi, kulutila, bukali, kunyema, kubwenta alimwi amajwi aakusampaula antoomwe abubi buli boonse.”—Baefeso 4:31.

6. MUTANOOMUKI KULILEKELELA, ALIMWI AMUPANDULULE CINI NCOMUYOOCITA KUTEGWA MUBAMBE TWAAMBO.

Mutalekeli kunyema kunyonganya makanze aanu aakubamba luumuno. Kamuyeeya kuti, ikuti mwalwana amuntu umwi nkokuti nyoonse nyobilo taakwe ncomwapanga. Pele ikuti mwabamba luumuno nkokuti nyoonse nyobilo mulagwasyigwa. Aboobo amucite lubazu lwanu kwaba mazwanga. Nokuba kuti muli masimpe kuti tamuli ndinywe mwalubizya, mulakonzya kulilekelela akaambo kakuti mwalinyemede, tiimwazibweza kabotu zintu, naa akaambo kakuleta mwazwanga cakutazyiba. Kuba aluumuno cilayandika kapati kwiinda kulisumpula naa kuzunda mumazwanga. Alimwi kuti muntu walilekelela amufwambaane kumulekelela.

“Koya ukalibombye akulikombelezya cakufwambaana kumweenzinyoko.”—Tusimpi 6:3.

Ino ncinzi ncomukonzya kucita kutegwa kube luumuno mumukwasyi mazwanga naamana? Aaya ngamakani aatibandikwe mucibalo citobela.