Usange tikupika yayi ivyo talomba, tikwenera kujifumba kuti, ‘Kasi ivyo nkhulomba ni vyakwenelera nadi?’ Kanandi, tikughanaghana kuti tikumanya icho ntchakwenelera kwa ise. Kweni nyengo zinyake ivyo tingalomba vingaŵa kuti vitovwirenge kwanyengo yitali yayi. Usange tikulomba Yehova kuti watovwire pa suzgo linyake, nyengo zinyake pangaŵa nthowa yiwemi chomene yakumazgira suzgo lithu kuluska nthowa iyo tikulomba. Ndipo vinthu vinyake ivyo tingalomba vingaŵa vyambura kukolerana na khumbo la Yehova. (1 Yoh. 5:14) Mwachiyelezgero, wonani chiyelezgero cha ŵapapi awo ŵakalomba Yehova kuti wawoneseske kuti mwana wawo wakhalilire mu unenesko. Pempho ili lingawoneka nga ndakwenelera. Kweni Yehova wachichizgengepo waliyose yayi kuti wamuteŵeterenge. Wakukhumba kuti tose, kusazgapo ŵana ŵithu, tisankhe tekha kumuteŵetera. (Doto. 10:​12, 13; 30:​19, 20) Ntheura ŵapapi ŵakwenera kulomba Yehova kuti waŵawovwire kumufika pamtima mwana wawo mwakuti wambe kumutemwa Yehova na kuŵa mubwezi wake.—Zinth. 22:6; Efe. 6:4. w23.11 21 ¶5; 23 ¶12

Chifukwa wuli kusanguluskana ni nthowa yakukhumbikwa chomene yakulongolera kuti tikutemwa ŵanji? Kuyana na buku linyake lakulongosora Baibolo, lizgu lakuti “kusanguluskana” ilo Paulosi wakagwiliskira ntchito apa likung’anamura “kukhala pafupi na munthu uyo wakukhumbikwira kumukhwimiska chifukwa cha suzgo likuru ilo wasangana nalo.” Ntheura, para tikuŵasanguluska ŵabali awo ŵasangana na masuzgo tikuŵawovwira kuti ŵalutilire kuteŵetera Yehova mwakugomezgeka. Nakuti nyengo yiliyose para tasanguluska mubali withu tikulongora kuti tikumutemwa chomene. (2 Kor. 7: 6, 7, 13) Pali kukolerana chomene pakati pa kulengera munthu lusungu na kumusanguluska. Mu nthowa wuli? Munthu walusungu wakuyezgayezga kuchitapo kanthu kuti wasanguluske munthu uyo wasangana na suzgo. Chakwamba munthu tikumulengera lusungu, pamanyuma ndipo tikumusanguluska. Wonani umo Paulosi wakuyaniskira lusungu lwa Yehova na chisangulusko icho wakupeleka. Paulosi wakulongosora kuti Yehova “ni Dada wa mtima walusungu na Chiuta wa chisangulusko chose.”—2 Kor. 1:3. w23.11 9-10 ¶8-10

Ŵalondezgi wose ŵa Khristu ŵakwenera kukhazga kuti ŵatambuzgikenge. Wonani chiyelezgero cha mpositole Paulosi. Wakayowoya ku Ŵatesalonika kuti: “Apo tikaŵa na imwe, tikamuphaliraninge kuti tikumanenge na masuzgo, ndipo ndivyo nadi vyachitika nga umo mukumanyira.” (1 Tes. 3:4) Ndipo ku Ŵakorinte wakalemba kuti: “Ŵabali, tikukhumba kuti mumanye suzgo iyo yikatiwira . . . Tikamanyanga yayi kuti tingaŵa ŵamoyo.” (2 Kor. 1:8; 11:​23-27) Mazuŵa ghano napo, Ŵakhristu ŵakwenera kukhazga kuti ŵatambuzgikenge. (2 Tim. 3:12) Nyengo zinyake ŵabwezi panji ŵachibali ŵinu ŵali kumunyozanipo chifukwa chakuti mukulondezga Yesu na kumupulikira. Kasi abwana ŵinu panji awo mukugwira nawo ntchito ŵali kumutambuzganipo chifukwa chakuti mukuchita vinthu mwaunenesko? (Heb. 13:18) Kasi boma lili kumutambuzganipo chifukwa chakuti mukaphalirangako ŵanji vya chigomezgo chinu? Mulimose umo vingaŵira, kwali tingakumana na suzgo wuli, kweni Paulosi wakati tikwenera kuŵa ŵakukondwa. w23.12 10-11 ¶9-10