Chifukwa wuli kusanguluskana ni nthowa yakukhumbikwa chomene yakulongolera kuti tikutemwa ŵanji? Kuyana na buku linyake lakulongosora Baibolo, lizgu lakuti “kusanguluskana” ilo Paulosi wakagwiliskira ntchito apa likung’anamura “kukhala pafupi na munthu uyo wakukhumbikwira kumukhwimiska chifukwa cha suzgo likuru ilo wasangana nalo.” Ntheura, para tikuŵasanguluska ŵabali awo ŵasangana na masuzgo tikuŵawovwira kuti ŵalutilire kuteŵetera Yehova mwakugomezgeka. Nakuti nyengo yiliyose para tasanguluska mubali withu tikulongora kuti tikumutemwa chomene. (2 Kor. 7: 6, 7, 13) Pali kukolerana chomene pakati pa kulengera munthu lusungu na kumusanguluska. Mu nthowa wuli? Munthu walusungu wakuyezgayezga kuchitapo kanthu kuti wasanguluske munthu uyo wasangana na suzgo. Chakwamba munthu tikumulengera lusungu, pamanyuma ndipo tikumusanguluska. Wonani umo Paulosi wakuyaniskira lusungu lwa Yehova na chisangulusko icho wakupeleka. Paulosi wakulongosora kuti Yehova “ni Dada wa mtima walusungu na Chiuta wa chisangulusko chose.”—2 Kor. 1:3. w23.11 9-10 ¶8-10

Ŵalondezgi wose ŵa Khristu ŵakwenera kukhazga kuti ŵatambuzgikenge. Wonani chiyelezgero cha mpositole Paulosi. Wakayowoya ku Ŵatesalonika kuti: “Apo tikaŵa na imwe, tikamuphaliraninge kuti tikumanenge na masuzgo, ndipo ndivyo nadi vyachitika nga umo mukumanyira.” (1 Tes. 3:4) Ndipo ku Ŵakorinte wakalemba kuti: “Ŵabali, tikukhumba kuti mumanye suzgo iyo yikatiwira . . . Tikamanyanga yayi kuti tingaŵa ŵamoyo.” (2 Kor. 1:8; 11:​23-27) Mazuŵa ghano napo, Ŵakhristu ŵakwenera kukhazga kuti ŵatambuzgikenge. (2 Tim. 3:12) Nyengo zinyake ŵabwezi panji ŵachibali ŵinu ŵali kumunyozanipo chifukwa chakuti mukulondezga Yesu na kumupulikira. Kasi abwana ŵinu panji awo mukugwira nawo ntchito ŵali kumutambuzganipo chifukwa chakuti mukuchita vinthu mwaunenesko? (Heb. 13:18) Kasi boma lili kumutambuzganipo chifukwa chakuti mukaphalirangako ŵanji vya chigomezgo chinu? Mulimose umo vingaŵira, kwali tingakumana na suzgo wuli, kweni Paulosi wakati tikwenera kuŵa ŵakukondwa. w23.12 10-11 ¶9-10

Yakhobe wakazizipizga masuzgo ghanandi chomene. Ŵana ŵaŵiri ŵa Yakhobe, Simiyoni na Levi, ŵakachita vinthu vyakukhozga soni mbumba yakwawo kweniso zina la Yehova. Chinyake ntchakuti, Rakelo, mwanakazi uyo Yakhobe wakamutemwanga chomene, wakafwa apo wakababanga mwana wawo wachiŵiri. Ndipo chifukwa cha njara yikuru iyo yikawa mu charu, Yakhobe wakachichizgika kusamira ku Eguputo uku ni muchekuru. (Gen. 34:30; 35:​16-19; 37:28; 45:​9-11, 28) Nangauli wakasangana na masuzgo ghose agha, Yakhobe wakalekapo yayi kuŵa na chipulikano mwa Yehova kweniso mu malayizgo ghake. Yehova wakachitapo kanthu kuti walongore Yakhobe kuti wakumutemwa. Mwachiyelezgero Yehova wakamutumbika Yakhobe ndipo wakaŵa na vinthu vinandi. Kweniso ghanaghanirani umo Yakhobe wakwenera kuti wakamuwongera Yehova wati wakumanaso na Yosefe, mwana wake uyo wakamutemwanga chomene, uyo kwanyengo yitali wakaghanaghananga kuti wali kufwa. Chifukwa chakuti wakaŵa paubwezi uwemi na Yehova, Yakhobe wakafiska kuzizipizga viyezgo ivyo wakakumana navyo. (Gen. 30:43; 32:​9, 10; 46:​28-30) Para tikulutilira kuŵa paubwezi wakukhora na Yehova, nase tingatonda viyezgo ivyo tingakumana navyo. w23.04 15 ¶6-7