NSOLO WA REVISTA | TINATHIMBANA TANI NA KUPSWIPA NTIMA
Kupswipa Ntima Thangwi Ya Banja
Janet alonga: “Pidalowa baba, mwakukhonda dembuka mamunanga andipanga kuti aona nkazi unango. Mu ndzidzi wakucepa, mwakukhonda kundidziwisa peno kundipangana, apaka nguwo zace mbandisiya na ana awiri.” Janet agumana basa, mbwenye nee akhatambira kobiri yakukwana toera kutsalakana banjace. Pontho iye asathimbana na nyatwa zizinji kusiyapo kusowa kobiri. Iye alonga: “Kupswipa ntima thangwi ya mabasa onsene mapswa akuti cincino ndisafunika kuatsalakana ndekhene kukhathimizirika. Ndikhapibva ninga nee mbindidakwanisa kutsalakana ananga ninga pinacita anyakubala anango. Ngakhale cincino, ndisadzudzumika kuti anango asandiona tani pabodzi na ananga. Kodi iwo asabvundzika khala ndacita pyonsene toera kutsidzikiza banja yanga?”
Phembero isaphedza Janet kutsalakana mwadidi mabvero ace na kukulisa uxamwali wace na Mulungu. “Namasiku pisanentsa kakamwe, mu ndzidzi wakusowa dzumbi, thangwi kupswipa ntima kwanga kusathimizirika kakamwe. Kucita phembero na kuleri Bhibhlya pisandiphedza toera kugona. Mafala anakomerwa na ine ndi anagumanika pa Afilipi 4:6, 7: ‘Lekani kutsamali nee na cinthu cibodzi tayu, mbwenye pakulonga maphembero, pakudembetera, pakucitambo takhuta mudziwise Mulungu pinthu pyanu pyonsene. Ntendere wa Mulungu wakupiringana ndzeru zonsene unadzakoya mitima yanu na ndzeru zanu.’ Ndamala ntsiku zizinji namasiku mbandikacita phembero na ntendere wa Yahova usandibalangaza.”
Mafala acibalangazo adalonga Yezu thangwi ya phembero mu Nkhani yace ya Paphiri asaphata basa mu ntundu onsene wakupswipa ntima: ‘Baba wanu asadziwa kale pinasowa imwe mbamudzati kumphemba.’ (Mateo 6:8) Mbwenye ife tisafunika kumphemba. Phembero ndi njira yakutoma toera tikwanise ‘kufendedzera Mulungu.’ Ndi api maphindu akucita pyenepi? “Mulungu anadzakufendedzeranimbo.”—Tyago 4:8.
Inde, phembero isacita pizinji piringana kuticitisa kupibva mwadidi thangwi yakulonga kupswipa kwathu ntima. Yahova, ‘Nyakubva phembero,’ asacitambo pinthu kuna onsene anansaka na cikhulupiro. (Masalmo 65:2) Ndi thangwi yace Yezu apfundzisa atowereri ace kuti “aphembere kwenda na kwenda nee kuleka tayu.” (Luka 18:1) Ife tisafunika kupitiriza kuphemba citsogolero ca Mulungu na ciphedzo cace, mbatinyindira kuti iye anadzapasa nkhombo cikhulupiro cathu. Cipo tisafunika kupenula cifuno cace peno maluso ace akucita pinthu. Kucita ‘phembero mwakubwereza bwereza’ munjira ineyi kusapangiza kuti tiri na cikhulupiro candimomwene.—1 Atesalonika 5:17.
MWANDIMOMWENE, KUKHALA NA CIKHULUPIRO KUSABVEKANJI
Mwandimomwene cikhulupiro ninji? Cikhulupiro cisaphataniza ‘kudziwa’ Mulungu ninga munthu. (Jwau 17:3) Cakutoma tinacita pyenepi mukupfundza pya Mulungu kubulukira m’Bhibhlya. Tapfundza kuti iye asaona m’bodzi na m’bodzi wa ife na asafuna kutiphedza. Mbwenye, cikhulupiro candimomwene cisaphataniza pizinji piringana basi ene kudziwa Mulungu. Cisaphatanizambo kukhala na uxamwali wakulemedzeka na iye. Ninga uxamwali wa anthu, ife nkhabe kucita uxamwali unoyu wakuwanga mwasusudeu. Cikhulupiro cathu ‘cinapitiriza kukula’ tingapfundza pizinji thangwi ya iye, tingacita ‘pinthu pinankomeresa’ na tingatambira ciphedzo cace. (2 Akorinto 10:15; Jwau 8:29) Unoyu ndi ntundu wa cikhulupiro cidaphedza Janet toera kuthimbana na kupswipa ntima.
Janet alonga: “Cidandiphedza kuwangisa cikhulupiro canga ndi kuona ciphedzo ca Yahova m’makhundu onsene. Midzidzi inango tikhathimbana na pinthu pyakusowa ulungami pyakuti tikhapiona ninga pyakunentsa kupikunda. Na kucita phembero mwakuwanga, ndzidzi onsene Yahova akhatiphedza munjira yakuti nee ndikhaidikhira. Ndingapereka takhuta kuna iye, ndisakumbuka pinthu pizinji pidandicitira iye. Iye asatiphedza kazinji kene mu ndzidzi unafunika ciphedzo. Pontho iye andipasa axamwali andimomwene akuti ndi amuna na akazi Acikristu. Ndzidzi onsene iwo asakhala na ine pontho asapangiza citsandzo cadidi kwa ananga.”a
“Ndisadziwa thangwi yanji Yahova alonga pa Malakiya 2:16 kuti ‘ndisaida kumwalana.’ Kuna anyakumanga banja akukhonda kudawa, pisapha kakamwe ndzawo angacita pinthu mwakukhonda khulupirika. Papita pyaka pizinji mamunanga mbadandisiya, mbwenye m’midzidzi inango ndisapitiriza kupibva ninga wakukhonda thema. Ndingatsoperwa, ndisayesera kucita pinthu toera kuphedza anthu na pyenepi pisandiphedzambo.” Mukuphatisira n’dida wa Bhibhlya wakucalira kukhala ekhene, Janet apungula kupswipa ntima kwace.b— Misangani 18:1.
Janet alonga: “Cibalangazo canga cikulu cisabuluka mukudziwa kuti Mulungu ndi ‘baba wa amphawi na mbvunuliri wa azice.’ Iye cipo anadzatisiya ninga pidacita mamunanga.” (Masalmo 68:5) Janet asadziwa kuti Mulungu nee asatiyesera ‘na pinthu pyakuipa.’ Mbuto mwace, iye asapasa udziwisi ‘mwakudzala manja kuna onsene’ na ‘mphambvu zakupiringana zacibaliro’ toera kutiphedza kuthimbana na kupswipa ntima kwathu.—Tyago 1:5, 13; 2 Akorinto 4:7.
Mphapo ndiye tani khala tisapswipa ntima thangwi umaso wathu uli pangozwi?
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a Onani 1 Akorinto 10:13; Ahebere 4:16.
b Toera kudziwa njira zinango zakuthimbana na kupswipa ntima, onani nsolo wakuti “Como recuperar o controle de sua vida?” mu Despertai! de Julho de 2015, isagumanika mu Interneti pa www.jw.org.
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Mulungu ndi ‘baba wa amphawi na mbvunuliri wa azice.’—Masalmo 68:5