Tikwenera kukumbuka kuzirwa kwa kulutilira kovwira ŵanji chomenechomene kwizira mu ntchito ya kupharazga. Para tili mu upharazgi, tikwenera kuŵa ŵakunozgeka kusintha. Tikukumana na ŵanthu ŵa vigomezgo vyakupambana kweniso ŵakufuma ku vigaŵa vyakupambana. Mpositole Paulosi wakasinthangasinthanga pakupharazga, ndipo tingasambirako kwa iyo. Yesu wakasankha Paulosi kuŵa “mpositole ku ŵamitundu.” (Rom. 11:13) Ntheura Paulosi wakapharazgiranga Ŵayuda, Ŵagiriki, ŵanthu ŵakusambira, ŵanthu bweka, ŵalara ŵa boma na mathemba. Kuti waŵafike pamtima ŵanthu wose aŵa, Paulosi wakazgoka “vinthu vyose ku ŵanthu ŵa mitundu yose.” (1 Kor. 9:​19-22) Wakaghanaghaniranga chomene vya mitheto yawo, uko ŵakufumira, kweniso ivyo ŵakugomezga ndipo wakasinthanga kuyana na munthu uyo wakumupharazgira. Nase tingaŵafika pamtima ŵanthu awo tikuŵapharazgira para tikuyezgayezga kuti tiŵamanye makora na kusintha upharazgi withu mwakuti ukolerane na munthu uyo tikumupharazgira. w23.07 23 ¶11-12

Para munthu ngwakuzika ndikuti ngwankhongono, ngwakulopwa yayi. Pakukhumbikwira nkhongono kuti munthu waŵe wakuzika para wakumana na chiyezgo. Kuzika ntchimoza cha “vipambi vya mzimu.” (Gal. 5:​22, 23) Lizgu la Chigiriki lakuti “kuzika” nyengo zinyake likagwiliskikanga ntchito pakulongosora hachi la muthondo ilo likuŵeteka. Ghanaghanirani za hachi la muthondo ilo sono ndakuzika. Nangauli hachi ili ndakuzika, kweni likuŵa kuti lichali na nkhongono zake. Pakuti ndise ŵanthu, kasi tingachita wuli kuti tiŵe ŵakuzika kweniso panyengo yimozamoza kuŵa ŵankhongono? Tingafiska yayi kuchita nthena pa ise tekha. Tikwenera kulomba mzimu wa Chiuta, kumulomba kuti watovwire kuŵa na mukhaliro uwemi chomene uwu. Nakuti pali ŵanthu ŵanandi awo ŵasambira kuŵa ŵakuzika. Mwachiyelezgero, ŵabali na ŵadumbu ŵithu ŵanandi ŵakulongora kuzika para ŵakumana na ŵanthu ŵakususka. Ndipo ivi vyawovwira ŵanji kuŵa na maghanoghano ghakwenelera kukhwaskana na Ŵakaboni.—2 Tim. 2:​24, 25. w23.09 15 ¶3

Mu mboniwoni yinyake yakuzizwiska, mpositole Yohane wakawona ŵalara 24 kuchanya kuti ŵakusopa Yehova. Ŵakalumbanga Yehova, ndipo ŵakayowoyanga kuti ngwakwenelera kupokera “uchindami, ntchindi na nkhongono.” (Chivu. 4:​10, 11)Ŵangelo ŵakugomezgeka nawo ŵali na vifukwa vinandi vyakulumbira Yehova na kumuchindika. Iwo ŵakukhala nayo lumoza kuchanya ndipo ŵakumumanya makora. Ŵakumanya mikhaliro yake para ŵakuwona ivyo wakuchita. Para ŵakuwona umo Yehova wakuchitira vinthu, ŵakuchiskika kumulumba. (Yobu 38:​4-7) Nase tikwenera kumulumba Yehova mu malurombo ghithu, tingayowoya ivyo tikumutemwera na kumuwongera. Apo mukuŵazga na kusambira Baibolo, yezgani kuwona mikhaliro iyo Yehova wakulongora iyo yikumukondweskani chomene. (Yobu 37:23; Rom. 11:33) Kufuma apo muphalirani Yehova umo mukujipulikira chifukwa cha mikhaliro iyo. Tingamulumbaso Yehova chifukwa chakuti wakutovwira ise kweniso Ŵakhristu ŵanyithu wose.—1 Sam. 2:​1, 2. w23.05 3-4 ¶6-7