Ukukhathazeka Kwabasakhulayo—IBhayibhili Lithini Ngakho?

NgoMvulo mhlaka 13 February 2023, inhlanganiso okuthiwa yi-Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) yakhipha umbiko omayelana lokukhathazeka kwabasakhulayo abahlala e-United States. Umbiko lo utshengisa ukuthi phose ihafu yabantwana abasesekhondari bahlutshwa yikukhathazeka lokuzizwa bengelathemba.

UKathleen Ethier okuhlangothi lwe-CDC olubona ngokukhathazeka kwabasakhulayo uthi: “Eminyakeni engu-10 edlulileyo bebekhona sibili abasakhulayo abahlutshwa yikukhathazeka kodwa khathesi sebebanengi kakhulu. Amankazana amanengi asakhulayo asehlala ekhathazekile okokuthi aselemcabango yokufuna ukuzibulala futhi amanye aseke akuzama khonokho.”

Umbiko uthi:

• Phakathi kwamantombazana angu-10, oyedwa kumbe abedlula lapho sebeke babanjwa ngenkani ukuthi baye emacansini. UDr. Ethier uthi: “Lokhu kuyethusa sibili ngoba phakathi kwamankazana angu-10 owaziyo, oyedwa kumbe abedlula lapho useke wabanjwa iganyavu.”

• Emankazaneni angu-3, oyedwa wakhona useke wacabanga ukuzibulala.

• Phakathi kwamantombazana angu-5, angu-3 asehlala edane kakhulu okokuthi awaselathemba.

Umbiko lo uzwisa ubuhlungu kakhulu. Phela abasakhulayo kumele bathokoze futhi bakholise impilo. Manje kuyini okunganceda abasakhulayo ukuthi balwisane lokukhathazeka? IBhayibhili lithini?

IBhayibhili lilamacebo anganceda abasakhulayo

IBhayibhili liyasitshela ukuthi kuyini okwenza insuku lezi esiphila kuzo zigcwale izinto ezisikhathazayo. Lithi zinsuku zokucina “okunzima ukuphila kuzo.” (2 KuThimothi 3:1-5) Lanxa kunjalo, iBhayibhili selincede amamiliyoni abasakhulayo ukuthi benelise ukulwisana lobunzima abahlangana labo. Nanzi ezinye izihloko ezincede abanye.

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