Kulungiselela Tinkhulumo Telinyenti
NJALO ngeliviki emabandleni aBoFakazi BaJehova kuba nenkhulumo yelinyenti lesekelwe eBhayibhelini. Nangabe ungulomdzala nobe inceku lesebentako, kuyabonakala yini kutsi usikhulumi nobe umfundzisi lophumelelako ekufundziseni linyenti? Nangabe kunjalo, ungacelwa kutsi wetfule inkhulumo yelinyenti. Sikolwa Semsebenti WemaKhristu sesisite emashumi etinkhulungwane tebazalwane kutsi bakufanele kwenta loku. Nangabe wabelwe inkhulumo yelinyenti, kufanele uyilungiselele njani?
Tadisha Luhlaka
Ngembikwekutsi wente lucwaningo, fundza luhlaka bese uzindla ngalo udzimate utfole umcondvo walo. Khumbula kutsi lukhuluma ngani, lokusihloko senkhulumo yakho. Yini lokufanele uyifundzise labo labakulalele? Uyini umgomo wakho?
Tati kahle tihlokwana futsi uhlatiye emaphuzu layinhloko. Sihlokwana ngasinye sihlobana njani nesihloko lesikhulu? Ngephansi kweliphuzu ngalinye leliyinhloko kunalamanye emaphuzu. Ngephansi kwalamaphuzu kunaleminye imicondvo lewasekelako. Cabanga ngendlela incenye ngayinye yaloluhlaka letfutfukisa ngayo liphuzu lencenye leyendvulelako, nekutsi iholela njani encenyeni lelandzelako, kanye nangendlela lekusita ngayo kutsi ufinyelele umgomo walenkhulumo. Nasewusicondzisisa sihloko senkhulumo, umgomo wayo, kanye nendlela emaphuzu layinhloko layifeza ngayo injongo yayo, usuke sewukulungele kuyilungiselela.
Kungakusita kucale wehlukanise inkhulumo yakho ibe ngangetinkhulumo letimfisha letine nobe letisihlanu, ngayinye yato ibe neliphuzu leliyinhloko. Lungiselela incenye ngayinye ngesikhatsi.
Luhlaka loniketwe lona lulithulusi lolungiselela ngalo. Alukentelwa kutsi ulusebentise njengobe lunjalo nawetfula inkhulumo yakho. Lufanana nematsambo. Asuke adzinga kutsi afakwe inyama, inhlitiyo kanye nemoya kuze aphile.
Kusetjentiswa KwemiBhalo
Jesu Khristu kanye nebafundzi bakhe bebakusekela emiBhalweni loko lebebakufundzisa. (Luk. 4:16-21; 24:27; Imis. 17:2, 3) Nawe ungabalingisa. Inkhulumo yakho kufanele isekelwe emiBhalweni. Kunekumane uchaze emaphuzu lakuloluhlaka uphindze ukhombise kutsi asebenta njani, tfola kutsi imiBhalo iwasekela njani lamaphuzu bese ufundzisa usebentisa imiBhalo.
Nawusalungiselela inkhulumo yakho, hlolisisa livesi ngalinye leliseluhlakeni. Naka ingcikitsi yawo. Lamanye emavesi amane akunike imininingwane lengaba lusito. Akudzingeki uwafundze onkhe lawo mavesi nobe uwakhulumele nawetfula lenkhulumo. Khetsa lafanelana kancono nebantfu labakulalele. Nangabe unamatsela emibhalweni leseluhlakeni, angeke kudzingeke kutsi wengete leminye imiBhalo.
Kuphumelela kwenkhulumo yakho angeke kuye ngelinani lemibhalo lotayifundza kodvwa kutawuya ngelizinga lekufundzisa kwakho. Nawetfula imibhalo, shano kutsi kungani ifundvwa. Tinike sikhatsi sekuveta kutsi isebenta njani. Ngemuva kwekufundza umbhalo, gcina liBhayibheli lakho livulekile nawusawuchaza. Labakulalele nabo batawukwenta lokufananako. Ungabenta njani kutsi babe nenshisekelo kuloko lokhuluma ngako futsi bazuze ngalokugcwele eVini laNkulunkulu? (Neh. 8:8, 12) Loko ungakwenta ngekuchaza, ngekusebentisa imifanekiso kanye nangekukhombisa kutsi indzaba isebenta njani.
Kuchaza. Nawulungiselela kuchaza umbhalo loyinhloko, tibute: ‘Usho kutsini lombhalo? Kungani ngiwusebentisa kulenkhulumo? Yini lokungenteka kutsi labo labangilalele batibuta yona ngawo?’ Kungase kudzingeke uhlatiye lokucuketfwe ngulombhalo, imininingwane lewukhanyisako, timo letatikhona nawubhalwa, imicondvo levetwa ngemagama kanye nenjongo yembhali wayo. Loko kudzinga kutsi ucwaninge. Etincwadzini ‘tesisebenti lesetsembekile nalesihlakaniphile’ utawutfola kwatiswa lokunyenti lokungakusita. (Mat. 24:45-47) Ungetami kuchaza konkhe lokusevesini, kodvwa chaza loko locele kutsi bakunake kulo lokuhlobene neliphuzu lokhuluma ngalo.
Kusebentisa Imifanekiso. Injongo yekusebentisa imifanekiso kutsi usite labo labakulalele bayicondze kahle indzaba nobe ubasite bakhumbule liphuzu lelitsite nobe simiso lokhulume ngaso. Imifanekiso isita bantfu bakucondze loko lobatjele kona futsi bakuhlobanise naloko lesebavele bakwati. Nguloko lokwentiwa nguJesu eNshumayelweni YaseNtsabeni. “Tinyoni,” “timbali tesiganga,” ‘lisango lelincane,’ ‘indlu lesetikwelidvwala’ kanye naleminye imifanekiso leminyenti yenta kufundzisa kwakhe kwaba nemandla, kwacaca, futsi kwakhumbuleka.—Mat., tehl. 5–7.
Kukhombisa Kutsi Indzaba Isebenta Njani. Kuchaza umbhalo kanye nekusebentisa imifanekiso kutawenta labo labakulalele batfole lwati, kodvwa kulusebentisa lolo lwati ngiko lokuletsa imiphumela. Kuliciniso kutsi kungumtfwalo wabo kwenta loko lokushiwo liBhayibheli, kodvwa ungabasita kutsi bakucondze loko lokufanele bakwente. Nasewuciniseka kutsi bayalicondza livesi lokhuluma ngalo futsi bayayibona nendlela lelihlobana ngayo naloko lokhuluma ngako, tinike sikhatsi lesenele kute ukhombise indlela lelikutsintsa ngayo loko labakukholelwako kanye nendlela labatiphatsa ngayo. Gcizelela kubaluleka kwekulahla imibono leliphutsa nobe kutiphatsa lokungahambisani naloko lokhuluma ngako.
Njengobe ucabanga ngendlela lotawukhombisa ngayo kutsi imibhalo isebenta njani, khumbula kutsi timo tekuphila tebantfu labakulalele atifani futsi netintfo labahlangabetana nato atifani. Kungenteka kutsi kunalabasandza kuhlanganyela, labasebasha, lasebakhulile kanye nalabanetinkinga letehlukehlukene. Yenta inkhulumo yakho iphile futsi ivumelane netimo talabo labakulalele. Kubalekele kuniketa seluleko lesivakala shengatsi usicondzise kulabatsite.
Tincumo Tesikhulumi
Letinye tetincumo talenkhulumo yakho tisuke setivele tentiwe. Emaphuzu layinhloko akhonjiswe ngalokucacile, futsi nesikhatsi lokufanele usicitse ephuzwini ngalinye leliyinhloko sibonakala kahle. Letinye tincumo kufanele tentiwe nguwe. Ungase ukhetse kucitsa sikhatsi lesinyenti emaphuzwini latsite kodvwa ucitse lesincane kulamanye. Ungacabangi kutsi kufanele uhlanganise onkhe emaphuzu ngendlela lefananako. Loko kungabanga kutsi usheshise nawukhuluma bese labakulalele bayalahleka. Ungancuma njani kutsi nguliphi liphuzu lokufanele ulichaze kabanti kanye nekutsi nguliphi lokufanele umane ulitsi caphu caphu? Tibute: ‘Ngumaphi emaphuzu latangisita kutsi ngigcamise umcondvo loyinhloko walenkhulumo? Ngumaphi kuwo labonakala angabazuzisa kakhulu labo labangilalele? Kushiya umbhalo lotsite lokhonjiwe kanye neliphuzu lelihlobene nawo kungabangela yini kutsi indzaba yakho ingasahlangani kahle?’
Kubalekele kucagela nobe kufaka imibono yakho. Ngisho naJesu Khristu, iNdvodzana yaNkulunkulu akakhulumanga ‘lokuvela kuye.’ (Joh. 14:10) Khumbula kutsi sizatfu lesenta bantfu bete emihlanganweni yaBoFakazi BaJehova kuva nakufundziswa ngeliBhayibheli. Nangabe sewutsatfwa njengesikhulumi lesihle, loko kwentiwa kutsi awutigcamisi wena, kodvwa ugcamisa liVi laNkulunkulu. Kungako tinkhulumo takho titsandzeka.—Fil. 1:10, 11.
Nangabe sewucedzile kulungiselela luhlaka lwakho walwenta lwaphila, sale uphrakthiza kuyetfula. Kuyazuzisa kuphrakthiza ngelivi lelivakalako. Lokubaluleke kakhulu kuciniseka kutsi uwati kahle onkhe emaphuzu lotawasebentisa. Kufanele ukhulume ngekuciniseka, wente inkhulumo yakho iphile futsi uyetfule ngemdlandla. Ngembikwekutsi wetfule inkhulumo yakho, tibute: ‘Yini lengifisa kuyifeza? Emaphuzu layinhloko ayagcama yini? ImiBhalo ngiyentile yini yaba sisekelo senkhulumo yami? Kuyevakala yini kutsi liphuzu ngalinye leliyinhloko lihlangana njani nalelilandzelako? Lenkhulumo iyalwakha yini lutsandvo ngaJehova nangaloko yena lasentela kona? Siphetfo sayo siyahlobana yini nesihloko, futsi siyabakhombisa yini labo labangilalele kutsi kufanele benteni futsi sibakhutsate kutsi bakwente loko?’ Nangabe uphendvula ngayebo kulemibuto, kusho kutsi sewukulungele kwenta “lwati lutsandzeke,” kute libandla lizuze futsi ludvumo luye kuJehova!—Taga 15:2.