Kukhuluma Ngekushelela

NAWUFUNDZA ngelivi lelivakalako, kuyenteka yini kutsi ubambeke kuleminye imisho? Nawetfula inkhulumo, uvame kutikhandza ungaciniseki yini ngemagama lakahle longawasho? Nakunjalo, kungenteka unenkinga yekungakhulumi ngekushelela. Umuntfu lokhuluma ngekushelela ufundza aphindze akhulume ngendlela letawukwenta kutsi emagama nemicondvo kuphume ngekushelela futsi kucace. Kukhuluma ngekushelela akusho kutsi ukhuluma angayekeli, asheshise nome akhulume angakacabangi. Loko lakushoko kuvakala kahle futsi kuyatsandzeka. Kunakwa kakhulu kukhuluma ngekushelela eSikolweni Semsebenti WemaKhristu.

Kunetintfo letehlukehlukene letingabanga kutsi ungakhulumi ngekushelela. Kuloku lokulandzelako, kukhona yini lokufanele ukutfutfukise? (1) Nawufundzela labanye, kungawetayeli lamanye emagama kungenta kutsi ungabate kuwabita. (2) Kuhlaba likhefu etindzaweni letinyenti kungabangela kutsi ubambeke. (3) Lenkinga ingabangelwa kungalungiseleli kahle. (4) Imbangela lenkhulu yekungakhulumi ngekushelela nawusembikwebantfu kungayihleli ngekulandzelana kwayo indzaba. (5) Kungabi nemagama lamanyenti lowatiko kungenta kutsi ubambeke nawukhuluma, solo ufuna ligama lelikahle longalisebentisa. (6) Kugcizelela emagama lamanyenti kungenta kutsi ungakhulumi ngekushelela. (7) Kungawati umtsetfo welulwimi nako kungaba yimbangela yalenkinga.

Nawungakhulumi ngekushelela eHholweni LeMbuso, labakulalele ngeke bavele basukume bahambe kodvwa tingcondvo tabo tingase tizule. Umphumela waloko kungaba kutsi bangakukhumbuli lokunyenti lokushoko.

Ngakulokunye, nawufuna kwetfula inkhulumo ngendlela leshelelako futsi ibe lusito kulabakulalele, kufanele unake kutsi ingevakali shengatsi iyabaphocelela, ize ibente bative banemahloni. Ngesizatfu sekutsi sinemasiko langafani, kubantfu ungevakala ukhuluma budlabha nobe loko lokushoko kuvakale shengatsi akusuki enhlitiyweni, futsi loko kutawubangela kutsi ingafezeki injongo yenkhulumo yakho. Nanobe umphostoli Pawula abesikhulumi lesinalokuhlangenwe nako, kodvwa watsi nakakhuluma nebaseKhorinte weta kubo “ngebutsakatsaka, ngekwesaba, nangekutfutfumela lokukhulu” kuze angatidvonseli emehlo.​—1 Khor. 2:3.

Lokufanele Ungakwenti. Bantfu labanyenti banemkhuba wekutsi nabakhuluma batsi “e-e-e.” Kunome ngukuphi labakushoko, njalo nabakhuluma labanye bacala ngekutsi “kutsiwa,” nome basebentise emagama latsi “sibe ngulabo,” nome “kusho kutsi.” Mhlawumbe awunaki nawukhuluma kutsi unayo lenkinga. Ungase ucele lomunye umuntfu kutsi akulalele futsi nangabe uwasho lawo magama naye awasho. Ungase umangale kutsi nawe unayo lenkinga.

Nabafundza nome bakhuluma, labanye bantfu bayakuphindzaphindza lasebakushito. Loko bakwenta ngekutsi bacale umusho bese emkhatsini wawo bayema, babuyele emuva baphindze lebesebakushito.

Labanye bantfu bakhuluma ngekushelela, kodvwa batsi basengakawucedzi umcondvo labafuna kuwendlulisela bese bayashintja bakhulume ngalokunye. Nanobe bakhuluma ngekushelela, kushintja imicondvo kungakalindzeleki kungaphazamisa.

Longakwenta Kuze Utfutfuke. Nangabe unenkinga yekubambeka ufuna ligama lelikahle longalisebentisa, kudzingeka wente konkhe lokusemandleni akho kuze wengete emagama lowatiko. Wanakisise emagama longakawetayeli laku-Sicongosekulindza, ku-“Phaphama!” nalakuletinye tincwadzi lotifundzako. Wabuke kusichazamagama, ufundze indlela labitwa ngayo nenchazelo yawo bese uwabamba ngengcondvo. Nangabe ute sichazamagama, cela lomunye lolukhuluma kahle lolo lwimi kutsi akusite.

Kutayela kufundza ngelivi lelivakalako kutakusita kutsi utfutfuke. Naka emagama lamatima bese uwafundza ngalokuvakalako tikhatsi letinyenti.

Kuze ufundze ngekushelela, kudzingeka uyati indlela emagama lavumelana ngayo emshweni. Kudzingeka ufundze emagama uwahlanganise kuze wendlulisele umcondvo walokushiwo ngumbhali. Nakisisa indlela lahlelwe ngayo. Nangabe kutakusita, wadvwebele. Umgomo wakho awusiko kumane ufundze kahle emagama kuphela, kodvwa kwendlulisela imicondvo ngendlela lecacile. Ngemuva kwekuhlatiya umusho, yendlulela kulomunye uze usicedze sigaba. Yetayele indlela imicondvo lehlangana ngayo. Ngemuva kwaloko, phrakthiza kufundza ngelivi lelivakalako. Fundza sigaba usiphindzaphindze uze ungasabambeki futsi ungasemi etindzaweni letingakafaneli. Ngemuva kwaloko, yendlulela kuletinye tigaba.

Nasewukwentile loku, khulisa litubane lofundza ngalo. Nasewuyati indlela emagama lahlelwe ngayo emshweni, utawukhona kubona emagama lamanyenti ngasikhatsi sinye futsi utawukwati kutsi ngumaphi emagama lolindzele kutsi alandzele. Loko kutakusita kutsi ufundze ngendlela lephumelelako.

Kuphrakthiza kufundza ungakalungiseleli kungayicecesha indlela lofundza ngayo. Nasi sibonelo: Ngaphandle kwekulungiselela, fundza ngalokuvakalako umbhalo welusuku nesigaba sawo; loku akube yintfo loyenta njalo. Cecesha emehlo akho kutsi abuke emagama lamanyenti nawufundza kunekubuka ligama linye ngesikhatsi.

Kuze ukhulume ngekushelela nawucoca, kudzingeka ucabange ngaphambi kwekutsi ukhulume. Loku kwente malanga onkhe. Ncuma kutsi ngumiphi imicondvo lofuna kuyisho, nekutsi utawuyisho njani; ngemuva kwaloko sewungakhuluma, kodvwa ungajaki. Yetama kusho imicondvo lephelele ngaphandle kwekuma nome ngaphandle kwekusho leminye imicondvo leyehlukile. Kungakusita kutsi usho imisho lemelula nalemifishane.

Nangabe wati kutsi ufuna kutsini, emagama atatiphumela. Esikhatsini lesinyenti, akudzingeki kutsi uhlele emagama lotawasebentisa nawukhuluma. Kuncono kutsi wati kutsi ufuna kutsini bese ucabanga ngemagama lotawasho njengoba uchubeka nekukhuluma. Nangabe ungacabangi ngemagama kodvwa ucabanga ngalotakusho, emagama atawuvele atifikele futsi utawukhuluma ngalokusuka enhlitiyweni. Kodvwa nawucabanga ngemagama kucala kunekucabanga ngemicondvo, utawubambeka nawukhuluma. Nawuphrakthiza, utawukhona kukhuluma ngekushelela, lokuyintfo lebalulekile nasikhuluma nome nasifundza.

Ngesikhatsi abelwe kutsi amelele Jehova esiveni sema-Israyeli nakuFaro waseGibhithe, Mosi wativa kungamfaneli loko. Kungani? Kungobe abengakhulumi ngekushelela futsi kungenteka kutsi bekangingita. (Eks. 4:10; 6:12) Mosi wabeka taba kodvwa kute ngisho nasinye Nkulunkulu lasemukela. Jehova watfuma Aroni kutsi ahambe naMosi atomkhulumela, kodvwa waphindze wamsita Mosi kutsi akhulume. Mosi akagcinanga ngekukhuluma nemuntfu munye nome nelicembu lelincane lebantfu kodvwa wakhuluma naso sonkhe sive saka-Israyeli, futsi loko wakwenta ngemphumelelo tikhatsi letinyenti. (Dut. 1:1-3; 5:1; 29:2; 31:1, 2, 30; 33:1) Nawenta konkhe lokusemandleni akho kutsi ukhulume ngekushelela futsi wetsembela kuJehova, nawe ungadvumisa Nkulunkulu ngendlela lokhuluma ngayo.