Kuhlaba Likhefu Ngendlela Lefanele

KUHLABA likhefu endzaweni lefanele kubalulekile nawukhuluma. Loku kubalulekile nome ngabe wetfula inkhulumo nome ukhuluma nalomunye umuntfu. Nawungalihlabi likhefu, lokushoko kungase kubadide bantfu kunekutsi kuvakale kahle. Kuhlaba likhefu lokufanele kwenta kutsi lokushoko kucace. Ungahlaba likhefu kuze labakulalele bahlale bawakhumbula emaphuzu lagcamile.

Ungancuma njani kutsi kufanele ulihlabe kuphi likhefu, nekutsi kufanele ulihlabe sikhatsi lesingakanani?

Hlaba Likhefu Etimphawini Tenkhulumo. Timphawu tenkhulumo tiyincenye lebalulekile elulwimini lolubhalwako. Tingase tikhombise kutsi umusho sewuyaphela nome tikhombise lapho kunembuto khona. Kuletinye tilwimi, timphawu tenkhulumo tisetjentiselwa kugcamisa lokucashuniwe. Letinye tato tikhombisa kuhlobana emkhatsini wetincenye letehlukahlukene temusho. Umuntfu lotifundzela yena, angatibona timphawu tenkhulumo. Nangabe sekafundzela labanye bantfu, livi lakhe kufanele likhombise loko lokushiwo luphawu lwenkhulumo lolusetjentisiwe. (Kuze utfole imininingwane lebanti, fundza Sifundvo 1, lesitsi “Kufundza Emagama Njengobe Anjalo.”) Nawungalihlabi likhefu lapho kudzingeke khona, ungase ubangele kutsi kube matima kulabanye kukucondza lokufundzako nome kusontse umcondvo wako.

Ngetulu kwetimphawu tenkhulumo, indlela imicondvo lendluliselwe ngayo emishweni itawuncuma kutsi kufanele ulihlabe kuphi likhefu. Umshayeli lonelikhono uyati kutsi kufanele alinciphise nini litubane lemoto futsi uyati kutsi kunini lapho kufanele eme khona. Kunjalo nangekukhuluma. Kulihlaba kahle likhefu kutawenta kutsi inkhulumo yakho loyilungiselele kahle ibe mnandzi iphindze ibe nengcondvo.

Nawulungiselela kufundzela linyenti, kungaba lusito kubekisa lapho utawufundza khona. Dvweba umugca lomncane lomile lapho utawuhlaba khona likhefu kancane. Lapho utawuhlaba khona likhefu lelidze, dvweba lemigca ibe mibili isondzelane. Nangabe utfola kutsi kulandzelana kwemagama latsite akuvakali kahle nawufundza, nobe utfola kutsi ulihlaba kanyenti likhefu etindzaweni letingakafaneli, bekisa ngepeniseli onkhe emagama lakulomushwana lokulukhuni kuwufundza. Ngemuva kwaloko, wufundze wonkhe lomushwana. Tikhulumi letinyenti letinalokuhlangenwe nako tiyayisebentisa lendlela.

Kuhlaba likhefu nawucoca malanga onkhe akusiyo inkinga ngobe usuke ukwati lofuna kukusho. Nome kunjalo, nawunemkhuba wekuhlaba likhefu kanyenti, lokukhulumako kutawulahlekelwa sisindvo futsi kungacaci. Longakwenta kuze utfutfuke ekuhlabeni likhefu kutfolakala kuSifundvo 4 lesitsi, “Kukhuluma Ngekushelela.”

Kuhlaba Likhefu Kuze Ushintje Umcondvo. Nawusuka kulelinye liphuzu leliyinhloko uya kulelinye, kuhlaba likhefu kunganiketa labo labakulalele litfuba lekucabanga kabanti ngaloko lokushoko, futsi bahambisane nawe, babone kutsi sewushintja umcondvo, baphindze balicondze kahle liphuzu lelilandzelako lokhuluma ngalo. Kubalulekile kutsi uhlabe likhefu nawusuka kulomunye umcondvo uya kulomunye njengobe kubalulekile kutsi wehlise litubane nawujika likona usuka kulesinye sitaladi uya kulesinye.

Lesinye sizatfu lesenta tikhulumi tijake, tingalihlabi likhefu natisuka kulelinye liphuzu tiya kulelinye kutsi tisuke tetama kuhlanganisa emaphuzu lamanyenti kakhulu. Labanye kusuke kuyintfo labayetayele nabakhuluma. Kungenteka kutsi bantfu labavame kucoca nabo bakhuluma ngaleyo ndlela. Kwenta njalo, akukwenti uphumelele nawufundzisa. Nangabe kukhona lokumcoka lofuna kukusho futsi lofuna bantfu bakukhumbule, tinikete sikhatsi lesenele sekukwenta kucace. Kuze emaphuzu acace enkhulumeni, kubalulekile kutsi uhlabe likhefu.

Nawutawetfula inkhulumo leseluhlakeni, kufanele uyihlele ngendlela yekutsi kubonakale lapho kufanele uhlabe khona likhefu emaphuzwini layinhloko. Nangabe utawetfula inkhulumo lefundvwako, bekisa tindzawo lokufanele ushintje kuto nawusuka kulelinye liphuzu leliyinhloko uya kulelilandzelako.

Likhefu lolihlaba nawendlulela kulelinye liphuzu livame kuba lidze kunalelo lolihlaba etimphawini tenkhulumo, kodvwa akukafaneli ulihlabe sikhatsi lesidze ize inkhulumo yakho idvonse. Nawuhlaba emakhefu lamadze kakhulu, labanye batawucabanga kutsi awukalungiseleli kahle futsi wetama kucabanga kutsi yini lotawuyisho ngalokulandzelako.

Kuhlaba Likhefu Kuze Ugcizelele. Kuhlaba likhefu kuze ugcizelele kuvamise kuphumelela nangabe kwendvulela nome kulandzela umbuto nome umusho lowetfulwa ngemfutfo. Kuhlaba likhefu lokunjalo kuniketa labakulalele litfuba lekucabanga kabanti ngaloko losandza kukusho nome kubente balindzele kuva lokulandzelako lotakusho. Letindlela tekuhlaba likhefu atifanani. Ncuma kutsi nguyiphi indlela lekahle lotayisebentisa. Khumbula kutsi kuhlaba likhefu kuze ugcizelele kufanele ukwente emaphuzwini labalulekile kuphela. Nawungenti njalo, ngeke kubonakale kubaluleka kwawo.

Ngesikhatsi Jesu afundza imiBhalo ngelivi lelivakalako esinagogeni eNazaretha, walihlaba kahle likhefu. Kwekucala, wafundza incenye lekhuluma ngekutfunywa kwakhe emculwini wemphrofethi Isaya. Kodvwa-ke ngaphambi kwekuchaza lombhalo, wawugocota lomculu wawuniketa inceku wase uhlala phansi. Bonkhe bantfu esinagogeni bambukisisa, wase utsi: “Lamuhla, lombhalo lenisandza kuwuva uyagcwaliseka.”​—Luk. 4:16-21.

Kuhlaba Likhefu Nangabe Timo Tidzinga Kutsi Wente Njalo. Tiphazamiso tingase tidzinge kutsi ume kancane nawukhuluma. Umsindvo wetimoto letendlulako nome wemntfwana lokhalako, ungase udzinge kutsi ume kancane nawukhuluma nalotsite ensimini. Nangabe endzaweni yemhlangano kunemsindvo longasimkhulu kakhulu, ungase uphakamise livi futsi uchubeke. Nangabe lomsindvo umkhulu futsi utsatsa sikhatsi lesidze, kufanele ume kancane, ngobe labo labakulalele basuke bangakuva. Ngaleso sizatfu, hlaba likhefu unesifiso sekusita labakulalele kutsi bazuze kakhulu kuloko lofuna kubatjela kona.

Hlaba Likhefu Kuze Ulindzele Imphendvulo. Nanobe kungenteka kutsi wetfule inkhulumo lengadzingi kutsi ucocisane nalabo labakulalele, kubalulekile kutsi ubanikete litfuba lekuphendvula, hhayi ngemlomo kodvwa ngenhlitiyo. Nangabe ubuta imibuto lokufanele yente labakulalele bacabange kodvwa ungalihlabi likhefu lelenele, injongo yaleyo mibuto ngeke ifezeke.

Kuliciniso kutsi kubalulekile kungagcini ngekuhlaba likhefu nasisendzaweni yesikhulumi kodvwa loko sikwente ngisho nalapho sifakaza kulabanye. Kubonakala shengatsi labanye bantfu abalihlabi likhefu. Nangabe nawe unenkinga lenjalo, yenta konkhe lokusemandleni kuze utfutfukise kulendlela yekukhuluma. Utawutfutfuka ekucoceni nalabanye uphindze uphumelele nasemsebentini wekushumayela. Kuhlaba likhefu kusho kubindza kancane, futsi basho bacinisile kutsi kukunika litfuba lekuphumula, lekugcizelela, kwente bantfu banake futsi bachubeke balalela.

Nawukhuluma nebantfu malanga onkhe kudzinga kutsi ubanike litfuba lekutsi nabo bakhulume. Labanye bangakulalela nangabe nawe ubalalela nabakhuluma futsi ukunaka labakushoko. Loku kudzinga kutsi uhlabe likhefu lelidze ngalokwenele kuze nabo batfole litfuba lekukhuluma.

Emsebentini wekushumayela, sitawuphumelela kakhulu nangabe sinika labo lesicoca nabo litfuba lekutsi bakhulume. Ngemuva kwekubingelela, BoFakazi labanyenti bakutfola kuphumelela kusho sihloko labatawucoca ngaso bese babuta umbuto. Bahlaba likhefu kuze banikete labacoca naye litfuba lekuphendvula bese bayamncoma ngemphendvulo yakhe. Nabasacoca, bangase banikete labacoca naye ematfuba lamanyenti ekuveta imibono yakhe. Bayati kutsi kunyenti labangakwenta kuze basite umuntfu nangabe sebayivile imibono yakhe ngendzaba labacoca ngayo.​—Taga 20:5.

Kuliciniso kutsi akusibo bonkhe labatawuphendvula ngendlela lebesiyilindzele. Loko akuzange kumvimbe Jesu ekuhlabeni likhefu lelenele kuze anikete ngisho nebaphikisi litfuba lekukhuluma. (Mak. 3:1-5) Kuniketa lomunye umuntfu litfuba lekukhuluma kumkhutsata kutsi acabange, futsi angase akhiphe lokusenhlitiyweni yakhe. Lenye injongo yekushumayela kwetfu kutsintsa tinhlitiyo tebantfu ngekubatjela tindzaba letibalulekile letiseVini laNkulunkulu, lokufanele batsatse sincumo ngato.​—Heb. 4:12.

Kuhlaba likhefu ngendlela lefanele nasishumayela kulikhono. Nangabe ulihlaba kahle likhefu, emaphuzu endluliseleka ngendlela lecacile futsi avama kukhumbuleka sikhatsi lesidze.