pillaikku seks patri sollittharuvadhu eppadi

savaal

sila patthaandugalukku munbu, seks vishayangalai patri pillaigal petrōridamirundhu therindhukondaargal. pillaigal matravargalidam irundhu adhai therindhukolvadharku badhilaaga petrōrē avargalidam pēsuvadharkaana vaaippum appōdhu irundhadhu. adhanaal, pillaiyin vayadhaiyum thēvaiyaiyum manadhil vaitthu avargal sollikkodutthaargal.

ippōdhu kaalam maarivittadhu. “seksai patri pillaigal romba chinna vayadhilēyē therindhukolgiraargal. pillaigal paarkkum padangalilum tivi nigalchigalilum seks sambandhamaana vishayangal adhigaritthukkondē irukkiradhu” endru thī lōlittaa efekt endra butthagam solgiradhu. idhu pillaigalukku nalladhaa kettadhaa?

therindhuvaitthirukka vēndiya vishayangal

thirumbina pakkamellaam aabaasa kaatchigal irukkindrana. “vilambarangal, padangal, butthagangal, paadal varigal, tivi nigalchigal, mesējgal, vilaiyaattugal, pōstargal, selfōngal, kampyūttargal enna ellaavatrilum aabaasa padangalum, irattai artthamulla vaartthaigalum aabaasa pēchugalum malindhu kidakkindrana. adhanaal, thangalai ariyaamalēyē, niraiya pēr [tīnēj pillaigalum avargalaivida chinna pillaigalum] thangaludaiya vaalkkaiyil seksthaan romba mukkiyamaanadhu endra mudivukku vandhuvidugiraargal” endru taak tū mī farst endra butthagatthil debraa raafmen solgiraar.

vyaabaarigal seiyum thavaru. vilambaradhaarargalum vyaabaarigalum kavarchiyaana udaiyai vaanga pillaigalaikkūda thūndugiraargal. adhanaal, chinna vayadhilirundhē pillaigal thangaludaiya thōtratthukku adhiga mukkiyatthuvam kodukka aarambikkiraargal. “ilam pillaigalukku enna pidikkum endru virpanaiyaalargalukku nandraaga theriyum. adhai avargal thangalukku saadhagamaaga payanpadutthikkolgiraargal . . .  pillaigalai seksil īdupadutthuvadharkaaga alla, shaappingil īdupadutthuvadharkaagadhaan kavarchiyaana padangalaiyum porulgalaiyum payanpadutthugiraargal” endru sō seksi sō sūn endra butthagam solgiradhu.

enna seivadhu endru therindhaal mattum pōdhaadhu. oru kaarai eppadi ōttuvadhu endru therindhiruppadharkum oru nalla poruppulla draivaraaga iruppadharkum vitthiyaasam irukkiradhu. adhēpōl, seks endraal enna endru therindhiruppadharkum andha arivai payanpadutthi sariyaana thīrmaanangalai eduppadharkum vitthiyaasam irukkiradhu.

unmai idhuvē: munbu irundhadhaivida, ippōdhu “thangaludaiya pagutthariyum thirangalai” payanpadutthi “nanmai edhu, thīmai edhu ena kandariya” petrōr pillaigalukku sollikkodukka vēndum.—ebireyar 5:14.

nīngal enna seiyalaam?

pēsa muyarchi seiyungal. dharmasangadamaaga irundhaalum ungal pillaigalidam seksai patri pēsa vēndiyadhu ungal poruppu enbadhai purindhukollungal.—baibil aalōsanai: nīdhimoligal 22:6.

konja nēram pēsungal. orē nēratthil ellaavatraiyum pēsuvadharku badhilaaga vaaippu kidaikkum pōdhellaam konja nēram pēsungal. ēdhaavadhu vēlaiyai sērndhu seiyumpōdhō alladhu payanam seiyumpōdhō idhai patri pēsalaam. ungal pillai manamthirandhu pēsuvadharku yōsikka vaikkum kēlvigalai avargalidam kēlungal. udhaaranatthukku, “ēn ippadi asingamaana vilambarangala pōduraanga?” endru kēlungal. ungal pillai badhil sonna piragu, “idha patthi nī enna ninaikkura?” endru kēlungal. adharku badhilaaga, “indha vilambarangalla araiyumkoraiyumaa udutthittu varaangalē, adha paakka unakku pidikkumaa?” endru kētkaadhīrgal.—baibil aalōsanai: ubaagamam 6:6, 7.

pillaiyin vayadhukkērpa pēsungal. pallikku innum pōga aarambikkaadha pillaigalukku udambil irukkum uruppugalin peyargalai... mukkiyamaaga pirappuruppugalin peyargalai sollikkodungal. adhōdu, yaaraavadhu avargalidam thavaraaga nadakka muyarchi seidhaal thangalai eppadi paadhugaatthukkolvadhu enbadhaiyum sollikkodungal. pillaigal valaravalara innum sila adippadai vishayangalai sollikkodungal. appōdhudhaan, avargal vayadhukku varumpōdhu udalalavilum manadhalavilum seksai patri sariyaana vishayangalai therindhu vaitthiruppaargal.

olukka nerigalai sollikkodungal. chinna vayadhilirundhē nērmaiyaaga, mariyaadhaiyaaga eppadi iruppadhu endru pillaigalukku sollikkodungal. ippadippatta vishayangalai avargalidam mudhalil pēsinaal pirpaadu seks vishayangalai patri pēsuvadhu sulabamaaga irukkum. ungalukku edhu pidikkaadhu enbadhaiyum thelivaaga sollungal. udhaaranamaaga, thirumanatthukku munbu seks vaitthukkolvadhu thavaru endru nīngal ninaikkalaam. adhai ungal pillaiyidam sollungal. adhu ēn thavaru adhanaal enna aabatthu varum enbadhaiyum sollungal. “tīnēj vayadhil seks vaitthukkolvadhu thangal petrōrukku pidikkaadhu endru sollum tīnēj pillaigal perumbaalum andha thappai seiya maattaargal” endru byaand dhi big taak endra butthagam solgiradhu.

nalla munmaadhiri vaiyungal. solli kodukkum vishayangalai ungal vaalkkaiyil mudhalil kadaippidiyungal. ungalaiyē ippadi kēttukkollungal: asingamaana irattai artthamulla jōkkugalukku naan sirikkirēnaa? matravargaludaiya unarchiyai thūndum vidhatthil udutthugirēnaa? ennudaiya manatthunai illaadha oruvarōdu nerungi palagugirēnaa? nīngalē thavaraaga nadandhukondaal ungal pillaigal eppadi nīngal solvadhai kēttu nadappaargal!—baibil aalōsanai: rōmar 2:21.

sariyaana kannōttatthai valarkka udhavungal. paaluravu enbadhu manidhargalukku kadavul koduttha oru parisu. adhai sariyaaga payanpadutthumpōdhu, adhaavadhu thirumanatthukku piragu payanpadutthumpōdhu adhiga sandhōshatthai tharum. (nīdhimoligal 5:18, 19) avargalukku thirumanam aanapiragu andha parisai anubavikkalaam endru ungal pillaikku puriya vaiyungal. thirumanatthukku munbaaga seks vaitthukkondaal thēvaiyillaadha prachinaigalum vēdhanaigalumdhaan varum enbadhaiyum puriya vaiyungal.—1 thīmōtthēyu 1:18, 19. ◼ (g16-E No. 5)